Dar, I understand how you feel. Pretty started that at a certain point - the problem was that she picked up after everybody else too... Then she got tapeworms, and after the relevant treatment she stopped... It drove me crazy too! I noticed the behaviour started when I changed food. I don't konw whether that might apply to you as well, but just take that into consideration. Pity you sent your toilet harness back... I haven't got a clue myself of how it SHOULD be used; I just made up my own way, and it works... Hugs and Wags, Ollie & Pretty