Thanks for sharing this, Giselle. That is disturbing for me personally. I have
seen facilitators use physical contact with clients and it’s an act of trying
to put one in place of respecting the order with a notion of punishment. For
me, that scene is publically humiliating and shuts down the younger person from
her truth and feelings. There are real cases of parental abuse that may not be
addressed (I am only going by body language here as I don’t understand German
or Russian), and it an go to further silence someone from the truth of the
issues.
It’s not my style and rather for me the movement with any discord is helping
each person see the other’s humanity, personal violence and learn how to
self-care or self-protect in the face of it.
Thank you for sharing.
Heather
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Sent: Tuesday, April 18, 2017 8:40 AM
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Subject: [ConstellationTalk] Orders of love and trauma
Dear ones,
I have been wanting to connect with you about this for some months… Someone
sent me a video from Bert which I find quite disturbing. Since then, I have
mixed feelings... I would really appreciate you let me know your
feelings/thoughts about it.
We know the truth he - and Sophie - are holding and yet, in my heart, and as a
trauma therapist, I can’t accept this violence, which also seems unnecessary.
There is some kind of fundamentalism about the orders of love that seems to be
very disconnected. I really wonder about the effects this has… I could say
more, but I would really love if you could let me know what your thoughts are…
The video is in German and Russian… but if you can’t understand the words, at
least you can see the faces and the moment Sophie hits a participant with the
microphone, and, afterwards Bert sends out someone who complains about this...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hjp7Frr3QjQ
With love and gratitude,
Giselle
<http://www.interbeing.space>
www.interbeing.space
Giselle Charbonnier
+49 (0)163 834 1924
Bevernstr. 6, 10997, Berlin
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