We seem to have stopped discussing the other (The Other). A pity. Eric had a point. I think I'm somewhere in-between him and John (McC.), though I still do admire John's post, a salutary reminder. *** Today I saw a black man in the Health Food store, basket full -- as I commented -- of goodies. He gave me a classic Brit warm smile. We met again at the till; this time his white girlfriend was with him. He asked the manager to serve me first (I only had one item) but I needed something else. His girlfriend spoke to me too. Not English, her accent made clear. Austrian perhaps? No, she said, she was from Kuwait, they both were. I apologised for asking, but she didn't mind at all. Then she and I had a sceptical look at something the manager recommended to her, and I told her the other thing he'd recommended was good but could react with certain medicines. The Other/s, cunningly disguised as a mouse-brown hair, very light tan (I suppose, very light olive skin), young woman in jeans and a windbreaker and light backpack, no Muslim-dress-stuff in sight, + a British black man in a nifty woolly hat? They seemed more like me to me... middle class... Judy Evans jaye@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx ------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html