Irene wrote: Can you explain how intelligence is sexy? Intelligence is the antithesis of sexy. Intelligence is downright threatening. It's a reason given for John Kerry's inelectability, that he was too intelligent, too upscale. People couldn't relate to him. I can. Of course, I can explain anything, preferably from the well-thought/rehearsed stance of the immovable prime of elitis(nob)t-ic, gut-reaction. I once got laid, or at least enjoyed (reveled in) shared experiences with a former lover simply, at least initially, because she found my ability to recognise, and remember, the term for the terracotta army. Nothing like invested conversation to woo a maid. It's not intelligence that is unrelatable (to). It's the soul, the right-brain, the influence of (the) G/g-od(s). Rather, it's whether you really give a shit and have, at the very least, a modicum of experience in conversing. The more, the better. Who the fuck knew that women (and even men, but don't tell no-one -- that would ruin all the popular sit-coms) wish, most-of-all, to be conversed with? Reader's Digest told all-uh-us some four years ago, in a double-si(gh)ted, but deeply analysed study, of a random selection of their readers that we all, mostly, want the same thing. We wanna talk, not rock. Just speculating here, but the ever escalating sex obsession seems at least coincidentally to be directly related to the ever lowering level of intelligence. Is the obsession escalating, or is it simply becoming more public? How can we, as a people, not be preoccupied with sex? Okay, so I show my tendency toward favourtitism for genetics and behaviourism here. But, we are, unless you believe in God's greater purpose, put here to procreate, to fuck, to shag. We can do other things, and even reject our sexuality, but, having once worked a convention for asexuals, they were equally as obsessed with sex(uality) as nymphomaniacs. They just spent all of their time talking (or insistently expostulating how they didn't talk) about it, and little/none actually experiencing it. Also, power may be an aphrodisiac, but so is powerlessness. Not just in my opinion, it's the basis behind the younger woman syndrome (or younger man). Someone significantly younger is likely to be less experienced, easily impressed, etc. Sexy and young (i.e., powerless) go together. You bet your fucking ass that naïveté is sexy, but not only for the reasons you surmise. All of which are accurate, but unrepresentative of the complete set. I've relished experiences with younger (and older) women. Exposing a mind (and being exposed) to a new way of thinking is rewarding, and gratifies the ego, though not always in that order. Everything's always more complex than we would like to make it. You know I have to like you when I let you have the Times New Roman, while I write in Arial Narrow...peh-tich. d. Changing the subject, or not as the case may be, here's a documentary called the Power of Nightmares that is an absolute must watch. It compares and contrasts the Neocons with the Islamists. Truly, mythology makes the world go round. The documentary is feature length but well worth the effort. It redeems this godforsaken 21st century. Very much worth watching through to the end. when I get home and will make the time, I look forward... -- Be Yourself @ mail.com! Choose From 200+ Email Addresses Get a Free Account at www.mail.com