Sunday, November 20, 2005, 7:02:01 PM, Eric Yost wrote: JE> *and carry on chatting while they're being served* EY> Was in a Chinese restaurant on Broadway last week and two co-eds EY> entered (Columbia U is just up the street). They sat at a table EY> across from me, ordered their food, and spent the rest of the EY> meal talking on cell phones. An object lesson on how to dine with EY> friends as though you weren't. people do that here too but normally, *one* person, of two, does it, while the other just sits there. It's a bit like the (coffee-house, not restaurant) "man reads a quality paper while woman sits there looking woman-y" one (which thank goodness doesn't happen too often). When mobiles first appeared here men in suits used to use them on trains, self-importantly and self-consciously; now everybody here has at least 2 mobiles and many people have camera-phones, that happens less often (instead of course, many people use them but not self-importantly). A study here divided mobile users into the 2 obvious types: younger ones who text and run their social lives that way and people like me who just use the phones when they have to, and that, rarely (leaving out the middle group who use them for business, ?); I'll probably have to carry mine around more as my answer-phone's flaky and also increasingly companies making deliveries, and utility companies, ask for my mobile number so they can call me half-an-hour in advance (so I don't have to stay in waiting for them). I don't know how much my reluctance to use the mobile more often stems from the fact that it hurts my hands, which are anyway clumsy. -- Judy Evans, Cardiff, UK mailto:judithevans1@xxxxxxxxxxxxx ------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html