[bookshare-discuss] Re: Banned Books Week

  • From: "siss52" <siss52@xxxxxxxxxxx>
  • To: <bookshare-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
  • Date: Sun, 30 Sep 2007 20:12:11 -0500

Monica,

I am not disagreeing with you, as your way would be ideal.  I just want to 
pose a questioon that you may or may not have considered.  Supposing a 
friend invites your daughter to her house, and you give her permission to 
go.  While she is there, this friend pulls out a book and tells your 
daughter it is really good.  Would your daughter come and tell you if she 
found something in the book of which she knows you do not approve?  We have 
the peer pressure factor here.  I am not saying your daughter would sneak 
and read the book because I do not know her, and even then, I wouldn't give 
an opinion.  I am merely posing a possibility which you may or may not have 
considered.

Sue S.

----- Original Message ----- 
From: Monica Willyard
To: bookshare-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Sent: Sunday, September 30, 2007 6:25 PM
Subject: [bookshare-discuss] Re: Banned Books Week


Cindy, you are right that kids will sneak books, movies, and music too. I 
know my child doesn't live in a bubble. As for the judgment of the school 
librarian, I seriously doubt that she reads the books she orders for each 
grade. My hunch is that she goes by the recommended age level from her book 
vendor when placing orders. For that reason, I don't have much confidence in 
her judgment. There seems to be little interaction or dialog allowed between 
the school library staff and parents in my county, and that makes me less 
willing to relax and trust the school system. On the other hand, our public 
library actively encourages parents and children to use the library 
together, and I feel much better about trusting the  recommendations of the 
librarians there. Then again, they have taken time to listen and understand 
my concerns about what my daughter reads.

To be clear, I don't want books to be banned or burned from public 
libraries. What I do want is a way for a parent to prevent a child from 
checking out a book that the parent believes is inappropriate for that 
child. I don't want to take books from someone else's child. That's not my 
right or responsibility. I want the tools to be able to do my part in 
raising my child well and in the way I believe is best.

Monica Willyard

Grandma Cindy wrote:
You make some good points, but don't you think it's up
to the librarian  to decide if the books are
age-appropriate for that school library?  If children
take books home from the library parents can look at
the book and if they don't want the child to read it
they can explain why, rather than having it banned
from the library so that no one can read it.
 

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