-=PCTechTalk=- Re: Unwanted emails

  • From: <techrose@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
  • To: <pctechtalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
  • Date: Mon, 8 Aug 2005 05:18:01 +0200

I have not written to Marten since my email in the other group just
before he was banned.  I have NOT sent any emails to his personal
address since then.  In my email to him in the group I asked him to not
write to me and to delete my email address from his address book.

I continue to get emails from him.  The last had a picture that looked
like a cliff overlooking the ocean...(or some other body of water)
saying why don't I just jump over and make a better place for everyone
else.  It was frightening to me.  I have never had someone wish such a
thing about me... as least not to my knowledge... (except maybe my kids
when they were grounded..haha)  Seriously, it was scary to see those
words on paper directed to me.

This was not more than a week ago.  I keep these emails for one reason. 
If he were ever to try to file a complaint against me, as he often
threatens, I can show what he has sent to me and of course, there IS NO
correspondence from me.

My theory to not responding to him has been if there is no payoff to
him..for the emails he is sending, he will quit.  I am not sure that is
true any longer.  I think he needs to get 'hooked' into something else
before this will stop.  And I am not sure it will stop then.  He has
mailing lists with names on them and I think he will mail whatever he
wants for as long as he can.

I am staying silent for now, but, if this does not stop, I will go to
his ISP and I will include the emails he sent saying the guy at his ISP
thought what he was sending was harmless and funny.

If he has a cable connection, and he gets banned, his only other choice
may be to go to dial up.  Then, sending attachments would be a real
pain to him.  That could make him stop..or at least slow down.  The
cost to him would be much greater than his payoff.

But, I do not want to do that to him.  I just want to be left alone.

Rose
Las Vegas

 milady <kg6ocz@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote on 08/08/2005, 04:52:50 AM:
> Which is why using a mailwasher program to just get RID of his mail before 
> it ever gets into your boxes would do better. IF EVERYONE leaves him alone, 
> STOP responding even to ask him to stop, after a while the no response will 
> take the steam out of this tirade..the more you make contact the more fuel 
> for the flame..  It's like junk mail.. NEVER NEVER acknowledge that--it will 
> just let someone know your e-mail is active and the stuff keeps coming. Let 
> him know it upsets you and he will just continue.
> ML
>
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