oh! I got a request from someone on plaxo - It ticked me off!! she happens to know all of my personal information - which I thought was fine. but lo and behold - she has it all in her address book - and plaxo - I got this thing requesting verification of everything !! I was shocked!! I was going to tell her to please remove everything, but she wrote back soon afterwards and said she decided to not use the program and not to bother sending it back. still - is my information now on file at plaxo? this is the same gal who loves finding internet sites, and puts my address in them for them to send me their information. I've asked her to please not do that. She can send me a url of the site without plugging my e-mail address in. I gave her a yahoo address to use, and explained that my isp gave me that new address to cut down on spam, and I was absoluteyl NOT to use it anywhere on the net deliberately! then my friend goes and plugs it in everywhere!! she changes e-mail addresses fairly often, so hasn't been hit with spam yet - just wait! but she was angry with me for being upset with her for doing that - was I wrong? CrisS ----- Original Message ----- From: suzanne To: pctechtalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Sent: Monday, September 29, 2003 9:02 PM Subject: -=PCTechTalk=- Re: SpamAarrest?? just my 0.02 here... I don't feel that it is my responsibility to prove that my posts to this list are not spam. everyone here has to deal with spam on their own and in their own fashion. if the person who sub'ed up with spam arrest doesn't get my posts, so be it... I just have to hope that it wasn't his/her question I was answering... after all, that person sub'ed to this list as well, and that would lead one to believe that they wanted emails generated by the list in the first place. I deleted the request and imagine I will be getting another one forthright... and I feel the same way about plaxo - it is not my intention to keep up someone else's address book, if you know me, you know my email address. and if you look at their [plaxo's - I haven't looked up spam arrest's] privacy statement, it states that should they be sold out, their databases - which include any email addresses - will be considered an asset and sold forthright. can any one say canned mystery meat? ~s ----- From: "The Keyboard Cowboy" : Yes, I've received it as well and the Mods are dealing with it. It's : a new issue and we wanted to think about it amongst ourselves first. To unsub or change your email settings: //www.freelists.org/webpage/pctechtalk To access our Archives: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/PCTechTalk/messages/ //www.freelists.org/archives/pctechtalk/ For more info: //www.freelists.org/cgi-bin/list?list_id=pctechtalk To unsub or change your email settings: //www.freelists.org/webpage/pctechtalk To access our Archives: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/PCTechTalk/messages/ //www.freelists.org/archives/pctechtalk/ For more info: //www.freelists.org/cgi-bin/list?list_id=pctechtalk