'Andy' wrote: "It's kind of weird. They don't like when I talk about ..., they don't respond to ..., and now you apparently are bothered by .... Just out of curiosity, what would you, or anyone, prefer?" A suggestion for 'Andy': It's not all about you. I have found having kids enlightening in this respect. Others find it elsewhere. For 'Andy', there still is time and people like Marlena willing to help. Sincerely, Phil Enns Toronto, ON ------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html