In a message dated 5/6/2005 11:23:28 PM Central Daylight Time, aamago@xxxxxxxxxxxxx writes: Wow, there's no end to their stupidity. Just a question, when you talk to these people, do they drool? Hi, No. And, they are not stupid, either. Most of them are very very smart. Very smart. But, like so many of us, they look at only one side of an issue. They generally (like many people on either side of an issue) are not able to articulate the issue well enough to be able to share its strengths and weaknesses/pros and cons of an outcome. For example, someone who does not like Big Pharma, ought (in my opinion) to be able to very very well articulate the pros of Big Pharma as well as its cons. The people who have absolutely no problem with Big Pharma and who can see only its pros ought to be able to well articulate the cons, too. But, most people cannot do that. Many of them simply choose not to do so but many of them have no idea as to how to do that--and many of them think that if they even come close to doing that -- well, it will mean that, in some way, they are condoning the other side. Even wondering if a person drools smacks (to me) of dis-respect and makes me wonder if you been aware of the 'good' in these folks. There is much--especially if you value taking care of kids (one's one, but also--many of them are very involved in volunteer activities which help the elderly, help the disabled [esp kids going to camps], help with school/PTA activities [and do not sell that sort of activity short--it is in dire need--for much of what happens that is of the 'added value' happens because of a PTA which has active parents in it...] The fellow from the NYTImes editorial board (I think that was where he is from) who wrote one of the few books tracking the trends and beliefs of the 'regular person' as he traveled the area, is able to articulate pretty well that these are people who, in many respects, care very deeply for People... I may not agree with their points of view--but I do in some arenas of life. Still, even for the beliefs of which I do not agree, it is very very hard no matter where I would be to not assimiliate those points of view. Perhaps that is one reason why I look at every angle for all aspects as much as I can. (my child is having a hard time right now--I think we have hit a new phase of development, though, in which he sees too many people who he respects and honors in certain arenas of life who hold very different political/religious views than what I do. (fortunately, he does know the few that are scattered in our world--but frankly, many of them do NOT live in this area and those that I know with my belief system who live elsewhere do the disparaging of those who hold different viewpoints even more caustically than those who live here and who make you wonder if they 'drool'. They do not have much tolerance for the moderately conservative--those are lumped into the same category as the rest of them. THEY do not disparage you. I cannot let my child meet those of that 'do they drool' persuasion because, for me, respect is extremely important and trumps political/religious viewpoints.) I do understand the frustration level--and have my own theories as to why there is such a disrespect for Others--so it helps me not get frustrated with what are almost as mean comments as some that side has been known to make...<sigh> Wishing for tolerance for all, Marlena in Missouri ------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html