[guide.chat] carol

  • From: vanessa <qwerty1234567a@xxxxxxxxx>
  • To: "GUIDE CHAT" <guide.chat@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
  • Date: Sun, 5 Aug 2012 17:08:13 +0100

wow carol, wish i had a mum like that, i know you miss her, but look at the 
lovely memories you have and what she taught you, i have the opposite in my 
mother.
vanessa.

-----Original Message-----
From: Carol O'Connor - Email Address: missbossyboots33@xxxxxxxxx
Sent On: 04/08/2012 19:58
Sent To: guide chat - Email Address: guide.chat@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Subject: [guide.chat] Me and my mum

Good evening all 
I would love to share with you all the lovely things me and my mum did together 
before she took terminal ill with stomach cancer in 2007.
Well me and my mum were very close.  We always did things together like putting 
the washing out on the line although being blind mum would never allow me to 
get lazy no way 

she use to walk behind me out of back door with my hand along the wall.

Once at corner I stopped  I would feel for the weely bin then knew then I had 
to slowley walk around that bin then hold on to another wall till we came to 
her lounge window 

Mum then got hold of my arm and take me up on the grass and say right carol 
push that sheet over the line then peg it.

I felt good because taking part in helping mum 
she is called violet elazebeth 
anyway once washing was hun on line she took me back.

We would go in kitchen I would sit on stool chatting while mum was cooking the 
tea loved it.

I buttered the bread while she was peeling the spuds 
she then told me to go in her dining room to set the table for 4.

our James and mathew were eating on the big coffee table in lounge then 
me julie and wayne always sat at table 

oh loved getting involved.

mum then would tell me to take serviettes in .

wow she kept me busy.

WHEN Saturday came i loved it my favourite day as mum would phone me tell me 
she is coming to fetch me to go on our local market as it was great then 

I got ready got my money 
she ring door bell shout right Carol come on not got all day hahahahahahaha oh 
she was so funny with her statements .

we walk to market mum was always stopped on way by people she knew 

We go round the market great buy somthing for both of us.

We loved sitting in the cafe on market having egg on toast cuppa chatting to 
people in the cafe 
Oh by the way my mum was a proper chatterbox hahahahahaahha I never got word in 
edge ways 
yes I know 

bet you find that hard to believe 
god ful truth.
After cafe went in buctures for mums meat.

then for news aper then head home 
Oh loved it you know missing all that.
 Every tuesday and thursday my mum called to my flat for cakes and cuppa.

she would sit on my settee in here take her shoes off then raed the paper to me 

ah it was lovely having mum here if she alive now she would love my flat.

We always went to visit my aunties and uncle for cuppa 

Julie and wayne were never in always out with the kids 
doing their own things 

I used to go to mums every Friday to look after James and mathew mum always put 
us nice tea up while julie and wayne went out 

mum played cards with me and the boys on coffee table.
she would give us all kinds of cakes and drinks then me and mum chatted while 
kids wer up stairs on their play station.
I use to get fed up with our mathew though because I had to suffer the dvd's of 
the simpsons every week 
Hulma simson and bart simsom you might remember the simptoms they were 
charaters so funny very popular then 
i got sick of it use to yearn my head off hahahahahahahahaahha 

Oh it haunted me he would have it on in the morning 
I would shout oh no bloody hell not again 
happy times 

the kids played with my dominoes and cards braille ones and scrabble while mum 
was on settee raeding her magazines 

when julie wayne and kids went on holiday  for week me and mum had great time 
together I stayed at her house for week 

she be kniting while I wer listening to my audio books on my cd walkman 
autobiography 
she be making us both sandwiches and cups of tea in between 

loved it we both did house work together mum be ding down stairs I would be 
cleaning upstaires  then we both stop for cakes and cuppa 
in nice weather both sit out on the pathio garden table and chairs she even 
brought me chips out one day made chip muffins we had chat then orange juice  
when she went in kitchen washing up I listened to mums radio on the table 
outside 
oh loved my mum being with me 

Happy times 

love Carol xxxx

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