A worthy individual at http://www.aetherlumina.com/gnp/faq.html has spent a great deal of time on the great GNP (gender neutral pronoun) question and proposes several different solutions, illustrating each with the same imaginative passage (below). If you don't mind feeling like Gollum you may find that the following one of several proposals has some merit: Try using the gender-neutral pronouns formed by turning the plurals of "they/them/their" into singulars, just dropping the initial "th": Subject: ey; object: em; possessive adjective: eir; possessive pronoun: eirs; reflexive: eirself or emself. A person was down at the river bank withdrawing some polliwogs for eir froggery, when ey heard branches snapping nearby, and saw a creature creeping towards em from out of the forest. Its eyes had a gleam in them that made em think of all the fierceness of a salad, its nose resembled asparagus, its skin was white and bumpy like cauliflower. Ey fell backward in terror, and it stopped, a monstrous menacing mound of mobile vegetables. More crashings were heard from the forest, and two more creatures appeared above em on either side. The first creature spoke, in a quiet voice, and its breath smelled of root-beer floats and anise. "One should not take the wogs from the river, no no no little meatling. For they are pretty, and we likes to watch them." Another of the creatures spoke, saying "You would be wise to put them back, tiny tasty meatling, so that we doesn't have to savage you." With that, they raised their massive arms, each covered with wriggling things like grated carrots gone mad. Ey was indignant, feeling the polliwogs to be rightfully eirs, but under the circumstances ey was not inclined to debate the issue. "No, no!" ey cried, "I'll put them back! I'll put them back!" Scrambling over to the water's edge, ey carefully deposited each one of them. "Yessssss...." they said, their voices starting as whispers and ending in roars, "YEEESSSSSSSSSS!!!! Bwahahahahahahahaaaaa!!!!!!!!!!" Meanwhile, R.A. Paul writes: >What may interest people further is that Mirembe and I have eloped. This > may not be immediately apparent to anybody, for, as she is in the State > Department, and I am in the Philosophy Department, we will continue to live > several thousands of miles apart, and have no plans to meet before the year > 2010. My notes say 2012 but I suppose that's a mere detail at this point. >I apologize for injecting such personal note into the discussion, but > sometimes one's enthusiasm overcomes they. Or even ey. Best, Mirembe ------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html