snip > "after the infatuation inevitably ends ..." This seems to be presented as an apriori claim, or perhaps a causal law. In truth, it is neither. I've been happily married and infatuated for 27 years now ... to the same woman. The trick is that she's not an academic while I am, she reads long, convoluted novels while I don't - barely managed to get through The Da Vinci Code - she's a native German while I'm from Montreal, I love Volvos and she loves anything German, she's a vegetarian and I'm definitely not and she is a very practical, realist, prudential thinker while I'm a moral and epistemic Idealist. Together we've had and raised two kids (presently 19 and 25) and we've just invested mega-dollars in the renovation of our house. Proof positive we sort of like each other and expect to stay together for some time. (Do you have any idea what Tuscany kitchen tiles cost these days?!) So, yes, there's still hope for eternal infatuation. Cheers, Walter St. John's ------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html