Most gays that I have seen on TV are usually very over dramatic. Think about it. Several of us suggesting that having a cache in a playground is not the best idea, brought on the reaction from Stephen that it did. A good while back, I wanted to place a cache under a bridge and it brought on some controversy. I sure am glad that I didn't start crying like a little sissy and quit playing the game. These common sense rules or courtesy rules as someone stated are there to keep things flowing along and keep peace with the non-caching community. I normally wouldn't talk about gays on this list, but since Stephen seems to be so proud of it (his caching name, names of his caches etc.), that I didn't think it is wrong. Wish I had a better ability to write letters, but this is the best I can do. Cache on. Bernie