Hi everyone,
On the subject of Woody Allen and his relationship with Soon-Yi, I find it
interesting to focus on the adoption of the Soon-Yi and the reiterative
adoptions of Asiatic children by Mia Farrow as possible driving forces,
rather than to focus on the archetypical idea of the bad man who misled an
innocent good girl which, I think, can be a distraction from the essential
and the systemic issues.
Soon-Yi was adopted in 1976, when she was 10 years old, by Mia Farrow and
her first husband André Previn. She was the second adopted child of the
couple who first had 3 children of their own. They divorced in 1979, when
Yi was 13, in her puberty. Mia adopted two more children with Woody Allen
and they also had a child of their own. Mia adopted 6 more children as a
single mother within four years after parting with Woody Allen because of
the scandal. Im not sure how many of her adopted kids are Asiatic, I think
all or most of them.
So I have questions: What happened in the biological family of Soon-Yi? What
individual and social events, facts and forces affected her system and her
relatives? What circumstances led to her adoption? How does Mia look upon
Soon-Yi family system and her place of origin? How is Soon-Yi connecting to
her biological parents, ancestors and cultural roots? What kind of impact
had on Soon-Yi having her adoptive father swiched at the age of 13? How
does Mia look upon the first husband, the adoptive father? What kind of
impact had on Soon-Yi the following adoptions? And we could go on
Soon-Yi might as well be completely free of movement in her soul level. Who
can say? But I dont think so, most of the times none of us are!! Greater
and deeper forces are driving us. She could be entangled or loyal to
someone of her own system or even to the soul of Asia itself. And it even
comes to mind
Is she revenging? Many times Hellinger has stated that
adoptive children take revenge on their adoptive parents when the motifs
for adopting were selfish and/or when the circumstances of adopting were
perpetrating to the system of origin. We cannot tell, unless if we set it
up.
Best wishes,
Betania
On Wed, Aug 1, 2012 at 4:44 AM, david mathes <david@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>wrote:
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Hi
Thanks Vinay for bringing this up.
Re Mr Allen I would like to offer another view.
I am not sure why we would judge Woody Allen, does he actually have any
choice? (except that we have no choice!)
If we work Systemically then would it flow that we are all part of a
System and do we really have any choice? One idea is that the system
does give us choice, but it would always take the most optimum choice at
any time.
Maybe this is why Bert Hellinger started to look into the distance,
because the forces that drive families, come from outside the family,
even to the start.
love
david
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