Hi Anutosh,
I'm not proposing to do a constellation. I am saying is that I find it
healthy to keep in mind how little we know about the specific forces
driving the lives of Soon-Yi, Woody Allen and Mia Farrow.
And a systemic perspective allows us to open our minds by taking into
account possible and probable invisible threads. Otherwise we will easily
be mislead by what appears to be and forget that there is more to it...
even without knowing what it is.
Take care and breath peacefully,
Betania
On Wed, Aug 1, 2012 at 1:11 PM, Anutoshf Foo <anutoshf@xxxxxxxxx> wrote:
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Please, i hope someone ask Soon Yi first and get her blessings and
permission.
Imagine she must be sneezing like hell now in the last few weeks!
in loving respect
Anutosh
On Wed, Aug 1, 2012 at 9:56 AM, Zaquie Meredith <zaquie@xxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
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That’s right, Betania. Your questions could easily be answered by a
family constellation done to Soon-Yi.
However, without this constellation we remain mere espectators and
Spectulators.
Zaquie C Meredith, Spaulo, Brazil
www.zaquie.com
zaquie@xxxxxxxxxx
On 01/08/12 13:16, "Betania Sebastian" <betania.sebastian@xxxxxxxxx>
wrote:
Hi everyone,
On the subject of Woody Allen and his relationship with Soon-Yi, I find
andinteresting to focus on the adoption of the Soon-Yi and the reiterative
adoptions of Asiatic children by Mia Farrow as possible driving forces,
rather than to focus on the archetypical idea of the „bad man who misled
an
innocent good girl‰ which, I think, can be a distraction from the
essential
and the systemic issues.
Soon-Yi was adopted in 1976, when she was 10 years old, by Mia Farrow
whenher first husband André Previn. She was the second adopted child of the
couple who first had 3 children of their own. They divorced in 1979,
AllenYi was 13, in her puberty. Mia adopted two more children with Woody
ofand they also had a child of their own. Mia adopted 6 more children as a
single mother within four years after parting with Woody Allen because
herthe scandal. I‚m not sure how many of her adopted kids are Asiatic, I
think
all or most of them.
So I have questions: What happened in the biological family of Soon-Yi?
What
individual and social events, facts and forces affected her system and
uponrelatives? What circumstances led to her adoption? How does Mia look
impactSoon-Yi family system and her place of origin? How is Soon-Yi connecting
to
her biological parents, ancestors and cultural roots? What kind of
Howhad on Soon-Yi having her adoptive father „swiched‰ at the age of 13?
Greaterdoes Mia look upon the first husband, the adoptive father? What kind of
impact had on Soon-Yi the following adoptions? And we could go on∑
Soon-Yi might as well be completely free of movement in her soul level.
Who
can say? But I don‚t think so, most of the times none of us are!!
evenand deeper forces are driving us. She could be entangled or loyal to
someone of her own system or even to the soul of Asia itself. And it
itcomes to mind∑ Is she revenging? Many times Hellinger has stated that
adoptive children take revenge on their adoptive parents when the motifs
for adopting were selfish and/or when the circumstances of adopting were
perpetrating to the system of origin. We cannot tell, unless if we set
anyup.
Best wishes,
Betania
On Wed, Aug 1, 2012 at 4:44 AM, david mathes
<david@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>wrote:
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Hi
Thanks Vinay for bringing this up.
Re Mr Allen I would like to offer another view.
I am not sure why we would judge Woody Allen, does he actually have
atchoice? (except that we have no choice!)
If we work Systemically then would it flow that we are all part of a
System and do we really have any choice? One idea is that the system
does give us choice, but it would always take the most optimum choice
any time.
Maybe this is why Bert Hellinger started to look into the distance,
because the forces that drive families, come from outside the family,
even to the start.
love
david
www.amita-institute.com
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