I am curious what the "unmistakable example" might be, and lack sufficient
tact (among other deficits of personality) to restrain myself from
declaring that. I thought what Sheila wrote made a lot of sense to me and
my experience. I think in a group, openness is the exception. It is the
exception I seek by attending constellations groups, because I know I may
find it there; but to me it remains the exception, likely for the profound
and longstanding reasons touched on by Sheila-- not to mention reasons that
there may be which are beyond comprehension.
On Jan 23, 2014 10:28 AM, "sheila saunders" <peacefulcentre@xxxxxxxxxxx>
wrote:
both personal and professional situations. People tend to look for a few
I see this a bit differently. In my experience, the norm is exclusion, in
In my own experience, I have been the subject of exclusion within mynuclear family, in intimate and social relationships, and in my
So, yes, inclusion is politically correct, but no, I have not foundinclusion to be so widely exhibited as to be the norm. In my experience and
Always interesting to see what topic awaits the new day!wrote:
all the best, sheila
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On Jan 23, 2014, at 2:01, "Steve Vinay Gunther" <spirited@xxxxxxxxxxxx>
source of entanglements.
I am writing about a topic that’s a little difficult.
In the constellation ethos, exclusion is understood, generally, to be a
community itself is the degree of inclusiveness that is widely exhibited.
One of the things I have really valued about the constellation
exclusion on the peer level in one area of the constellation community.
However, recently I was dismayed to find an unmistakable example of
behaviours, for their own reasons, and obviously influenced by their own
Now, in the realm of human experience, people engage in all sorts of
being excluded without any possibility of discussion.
I certainly felt impacted by it, and somewhat powerless in the face
given the high valance given to the topic, somewhere it will form a
I am interested in other’s reflections on this issue. I guess that
Vinay
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Rest in natural great peace
this exhausted mind
beaten helplessly by
karma and neurotic thought
like the relentless fury
of the pounding waves
In the infinite ocean
of samsara.
rest in natural great peace.
- Nyoshul Khenpo Rinpoche
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