Hi Viney,
When we facilitate, at an unconscious level, we include everything we can
handle. Those things we cannot handle, those things that are too big, we
exclude, unconsciously. I think that every one of us, exclude certain things.
For me, it is impossible to be able to include the sufferings of the whole
world and of human kind, past and present. This is far too much for one person
and even for a group of people.
Every one of us is specialized and good in including certain things. For me
this is a reality.
Best wishes,
Maria Goossens, MD
goossens.maria@xxxxxxxxxx
Op 23 jan 2014, om 08:01 heeft Steve Vinay Gunther het volgende geschreven:
I am writing about a topic that’s a little difficult.
In the constellation ethos, exclusion is understood, generally, to be a
source of entanglements.
One of the things I have really valued about the constellation community
itself is the degree of inclusiveness that is widely exhibited. So many
different facilitators, with their different styles, yet there seems to be a
general ability to get along. This open, field-oriented inclusiveness is
something I find a bit special, and sets the constellation community apart in
my experience.
However, recently I was dismayed to find an unmistakable example of exclusion
on the peer level in one area of the constellation community. This experience
was rapidly and clearly confirmed, and the gate to dialogue was shut down
completely.
Now, in the realm of human experience, people engage in all sorts of
behaviours, for their own reasons, and obviously influenced by their own
field. But I thought to raise it, as perhaps its a difficult thing to discuss
exclusionary behaviour within our own community, by people who hold certain
positions, in roles of some power and influence.
I certainly felt impacted by it, and somewhat powerless in the face being
excluded without any possibility of discussion.
I am interested in other’s reflections on this issue. I guess that given the
high valance given to the topic, somewhere it will form a disowned shadow.
Vinay
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this exhausted mind
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like the relentless fury
of the pounding waves
In the infinite ocean
of samsara.
rest in natural great peace.
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