[blind-democracy] Re: Discussions on the list, was Trump and Clinton's Big Night Poses Hard Questions For Sanders Campaign and His Youthful Supporters

  • From: "Roger Loran Bailey" <dmarc-noreply@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> (Redacted sender "rogerbailey81" for DMARC)
  • To: blind-democracy@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
  • Date: Mon, 28 Mar 2016 21:47:46 -0400

Okay, I think I may see some of what you are saying, but I have not experienced any of it on this list. I will say that before I became blind I had only known two blind people and if I had known how much sight they actually had I would not have considered them blind at that time. They were partials. I also did not give much thought to blind people before I became blind. I suppose I may have had some image of blind people before I became blind even if it was not fully in my consciousness because once I did become blind and found myself thrown into the midst of so many blind people I was in for a number of surprises. I have discussed one of those surprises here. That was my complete surprise at how religious most blind people were. But there was another. That is that there is a lot of contempt for fellow blind people who are not highly functional blind people. It doesn't matter that I was newly blind and had not thought about ever becoming blind before and that I had not completely figured out how to function. The mere fact that I did not know how to do a lot of things caused me to be in the contemptuous category. I never thought of it as some kind of discrimination against the adventitiously blind. I thought of it only as a contempt against the not fully functional blind as, possibly, a way to make oneself feel superior. Could this be what you are interpreting as discrimination against the adventitiously blind?

On 3/27/2016 11:52 AM, Frank Ventura wrote:


Joe, OK that is your opinion but I respect the right to disagree. I have been told way too many times things like “what do you know about being blind” and “you don’t know what it means to be blind”, and many more. I remember very well what transpired after I went blind a dozen or so years ago, while I was taking care of my mother, and how I was treated by the old boy crowd with all of the “get a job you lazy slob”, “stop taking stuff that is only for us”, “you’re not a real blind person”, etc and I have never experienced such hatred from any identifiable group in my lifetime. I remember this well and I know what the attitude is, kick out the adventiciously blind before they get some of our crumbs. No Joe, I am not sure when you first identified yourself as being blind; but if this has neverhappened to you then I wish you well. But, for those of us that it has, I can safely say that I am sick of it and will fight back at every opportunity I can until the discrimination is eliminated.

Frank

*From:*blind-democracy-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx [mailto:blind-democracy-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx] *On Behalf Of *joe harcz Comcast
*Sent:* Sunday, March 27, 2016 11:38 AM
*To:* blind-democracy@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
*Subject:* [blind-democracy] Re: Discussions on the list, was Trump and Clinton's Big Night Poses Hard Questions For Sanders Campaign and His Youthful Supporters

Ok, now I've got better things to do but this is without merit as I think most of us, including me and Carl, are also advitiously blind.

I hate wheying in on these red herrings of your Frank. But, this is simply not the case.

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    *From:*Frank Ventura <mailto:frank.ventura@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>

    *To:*blind-democracy@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
    <mailto:blind-democracy@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>

    *Sent:*Sunday, March 27, 2016 11:23 AM

    *Subject:*[blind-democracy] Re: Discussions on the list, was Trump
    and Clinton's Big Night Poses Hard Questions For Sanders Campaign
    and His Youthful Supporters

    Does that apply to me as well? Or is it OK to shout me down, since
    as someone whom is adventiciously blind I am considered only
    3/5ths human by some people here. I have seen Roger regarded in
    the same light.

    Frank

    *From:*blind-democracy-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
    <mailto:blind-democracy-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
    [mailto:blind-democracy-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx] *On Behalf Of *Alice
    Dampman Humel
    *Sent:* Sunday, March 27, 2016 11:18 AM
    *To:* blind-democracy@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
    <mailto:blind-democracy@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
    *Subject:* [blind-democracy] Re: Discussions on the list, was
    Trump and Clinton's Big Night Poses Hard Questions For Sanders
    Campaign and His Youthful Supporters

    It’s called freedom of speech, and anybody can jump into any
    discussion, interesting that you use the more pugilistic “ring”,

    On Mar 27, 2016, at 7:38 AM, Frank Ventura
    <frank.ventura@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
    <mailto:frank.ventura@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>> wrote:

        A point that was only meant to attack the three of us, for her
        examples were false as it was actually her that did the
        pidgeon holing with labeling me a party loyalist. Does she
        have my entire voting record from the past three decades as
        evidence? If not than her assertation is false. As far as my
        characterization of her as an older, white, suburban woman on
        social security; that is accurate and came from her own
        descriptions of herself over theyears. But there really wasn’t
        any reason for you to jump in the ring unless you were to do
        the very sanme baiting you accused me of.

        *From:*blind-democracy-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
        
<mailto:blind-democracy-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>[mailto:blind-democracy-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx]*On
        Behalf Of*Alice Dampman Humel
        *Sent:*Sunday, March 27, 2016 7:32 AM
        *To:*blind-democracy@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
        <mailto:blind-democracy@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
        *Subject:*[blind-democracy] Re: Discussions on the list, was
        Trump and Clinton's Big Night Poses Hard Questions For Sanders
        Campaign and His Youthful Supporters

        I’m not wrong. Miriam described a situation using the
        time-tested tool of giving examples. You tried to get her to
        characterize, label, pigeonhole, whatever you want to call it,
        the three people she used as examples to describe the
        situation and to make her point.

        On Mar 27, 2016, at 7:28 AM, Frank Ventura
        <frank.ventura@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
        <mailto:frank.ventura@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>> wrote:



            Well you are wrong, I never mentioned anything about Ted,
            Roger et al; that was her. There was no need to throw that
            line into the water.

            *From:*blind-democracy-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
            
<mailto:blind-democracy-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>[mailto:blind-democracy-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx]*On
            Behalf Of*Alice Dampman Humel
            *Sent:*Sunday, March 27, 2016 7:25 AM
            *To:*blind-democracy@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
            <mailto:blind-democracy@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
            *Subject:*[blind-democracy] Re: Discussions on the list,
            was Trump and Clinton's Big Night Poses Hard Questions For
            Sanders Campaign and His Youthful Supporters

            Actually, I think it was you who were trying to bait her
            with the worms you mentioned…

            On Mar 27, 2016, at 7:07 AM, Frank Ventura
            <frank.ventura@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
            <mailto:frank.ventura@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>> wrote:




                Yes, I am fully aware that Miriam was trying to bait
                me on when she started the stuff about Roger, Ted and
                I. Actually that was my point with mentioning the can
                of worms.

                Frank

                *From:*blind-democracy-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
                
<mailto:blind-democracy-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>[mailto:blind-democracy-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx]*On
                Behalf Of*Alice Dampman Humel
                *Sent:*Sunday, March 27, 2016 7:02 AM
                *To:*blind-democracy@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
                <mailto:blind-democracy@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
                *Subject:*[blind-democracy] Re: Discussions on the
                list, was Trump and Clinton's Big Night Poses Hard
                Questions For Sanders Campaign and His Youthful Supporters

                and what are worms used for? bait.

                stating that x, y, and z have different political
                views is actually called stating the obvious.

                On Mar 26, 2016, at 11:05 PM, Frank Ventura
                <frank.ventura@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
                <mailto:frank.ventura@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>> wrote:





                    Miriam, no no no that is what I meant. When you
                    say something like x y and z have different
                    political views then you have already opened that
                    can of worms and they are crawling out.
                    Frank

                    -----Original Message-----
                    From:blind-democracy-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
                    
<mailto:blind-democracy-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>[mailto:blind-democracy-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx]
                    On Behalf Of Miriam Vieni
                    Sent: Saturday, March 26, 2016 10:08 PM
                    To:blind-democracy@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
                    <mailto:blind-democracy@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
                    Subject: [blind-democracy] Re: Discussions on the
                    list, was Trump and Clinton's Big Night Poses Hard
                    Questions For Sanders Campaign and His Youthful
                    Supporters

                    No because that's precisely the kind of discussion
                    my post was objecting to.
                    The purpose of this list, as I understand it, is
                    not to comment on other list members political
                     viewpoints, religious viewpoints, lifestyles, or
                    behavior. The purpose of the list is to discuss
                    issues.

                    Miriam

                    -----Original Message-----
                    From:blind-democracy-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
                    <mailto:blind-democracy-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
                    [mailto:blind-democracy-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx] On
                    Behalf Of Frank Ventura
                    Sent: Saturday, March 26, 2016 9:33 PM
                    To:blind-democracy@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
                    <mailto:blind-democracy@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
                    Subject: [blind-democracy] Re: Discussions on the
                    list, was Trump and Clinton's Big Night Poses Hard
                    Questions For Sanders Campaign and His Youthful
                    Supporters

                    Miriam, in your email below you said that Ted,
                    Roger and I have three different political points
                    of view. Just for my own edification can you
                    describe each one. No challenge or digging up dirt
                    here just natural curiosity.
                    Frank

                    -----Original Message-----
                    From:blind-democracy-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
                    <mailto:blind-democracy-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
                    [mailto:blind-democracy-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx] On
                    Behalf Of Miriam Vieni
                    Sent: Saturday, March 26, 2016 4:08 PM
                    To:blind-democracy@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
                    <mailto:blind-democracy@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
                    Subject: [blind-democracy] Discussions on the
                    list, was Trump and Clinton's Big Night Poses Hard
                    Questions For Sanders Campaign and His Youthful
                    Supporters

                    First of all, if, like Alice, everyone can easily
                    find the articles they wish to read, the ones that
                    are not usually from mainstream sources, then
                    there's no reason for any of us to post to this
                    list anymore. When I post, it's because I'd like
                    to share material that I think is interesting.
                    Often, the articles have contradictory opinions or
                    information.
                    Ssecond: Discussing opinions, disagreeing,
                    bringing up counter arguments is what we're all
                    about. But is upsetting and objectionable, are
                    personal attacks. And apparently, when people are
                    responsible for making them, they deny the
                    responsibility. I tend to get into a lot of
                    difficulty on this list because I'm very
                    articulate about my feelings and opinions and I
                    suppose, when I state them, it may sound as if I
                    think I'm stating the truth as passed down from
                    God to me, to be communicated to everyone else.
                    But that isn't what I mean to do. I just mean to
                    say what I think and feel because this has been
                    the only venue where I could safely do that
                    without disrupting personal relationships with
                    people in my life. But after my interchange with
                    Frank, I began thinking about how people have
                    described me when they have disagreed with what
                    I've said. They haven't just disagreed. They have
                    used words to describe the kind of person they
                    think I am and the kind of beliefs or attitudes
                    they think I have. Ted left the list, telling us
                    that we were all, and this included everyone from
                    Dick to Frank, including Charlie, Joe, Penny, me,
                    and Roger, all Marxists. I think he used a word
                    like unredeemable or some such thing. So I'm an
                    unredeemable marxist. On the other hand, Roger has
                    said I'm a Liberal which, from his point of view
                    is an insult, that I'm therefore, an enemy of the
                    working class, I suppose. Last night, Frank said
                    that because I'm an older white person who is
                    financially secure because I receive social
                    security benefits which no one will take away, I'm
                    willing to sacrifice the financial welfare of
                    everyone else by allowing the Republicans to win
                    the Presidential election.  Well, he wasn't quite
                    as concise as that, but that was the meaning of
                    what he said.  My point is that these three
                    people, who have very different political points
                    of view from each other, but who, at one time or
                    another disagreed with something I said, chose to
                    put me in a political category and ascribe
                    political beliefs and motives to me, none of which
                    were accurate, but all of which were meant as an
                    insulting rebuttal in place of clear arguments
                    based on facts or the posting of articles that
                    might have made their points. So here on this tiny
                    email list of blind people who consider themselves
                    to be politically progressive and fair minded, we
                    have difficulty dealing with differences of
                    opinion in a kind, humane, rational manner. No
                    wonder we have candidates like Trump and a
                    government, regardless of which party is in power,
                    that is constantly at war, trying to dominate the
                    rest of the world. We cannot even keep the peace
                    on Blind Democracy.

                    Miriam

                    ________________________________

                    From:blind-democracy-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
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                    [mailto:blind-democracy-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx] On
                    Behalf Of Alice Dampman Humel
                    Sent: Saturday, March 26, 2016 2:57 PM
                    To:blind-democracy@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
                    <mailto:blind-democracy@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
                    Subject: [blind-democracy] Re: Trump and Clinton's
                    Big Night Poses Hard Questions For Sanders
                    Campaign and His Youthful Supporters


                    That's not entirely true at all. He has outlined
                    plans for almost everything he has proposed.
                    Google, go to Sanders's website,  check news
                    reports from places like Mother Jones, Truthout,
                    USUncut, Common Dreams, interviews on those Sunday
                    morning TV shows, which I never get to listen to,
                    CNN, ditto, since I don't get it, Democracy Now,
                    The Young Turks, Bill Moyers, Addicting Info,
                    Liberal America, Occupy Democrats, Join the Coffee
                    Party, The Other 98 Percent, American News X,
                    Occupy Wall Street, to get you started, haha.so
                    you see, I've been busy, and I have to say to no
                    one in particular, that I have not missed the
                    squabbling and sniping that goes on on this list
                    and that we seem incapable of solving, nor have I
                    encountered such in other discussion groups I've
                    been participating in.
                    And, like Joe, if it continues, I'm going back
                    into hiding.yeah, I know, who cares? Just saying.
                    And Marsha, I know this is coming as part of a
                    reply to you, but it of course has nothing to do
                    with you or anything you ever have said. OK?
                    .

                    On Mar 26, 2016, at 10:47 AM, Martian.Lady
                    <martian.lady@xxxxxxxxx
                    <mailto:martian.lady@xxxxxxxxx>> wrote:


                    HI
                     Unlike Hilary Bernie does not say what he will
                    do.  he says he will do his best to accomplish his
                    goals.

                    Marsha


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