<sigh> I guess we're back to definitions. Maybe we should define what "feminism" means in the context of this dialogue. Julie Krueger still making endless lists of preparation for "Chanamas". (Buy new dreidles & get Gelt; Mini-Christmas tree display that enchanted me, find candles for Menorah, make room for toy trains, find least expensive ground lamb, set up enormously long folding table in too-small dining room and figure what I can cook a day ahead tomorrow; determine appropriate mix of Christmas and Channukah CD's and have them ready; prepare chocolate satin pie, turkey breasts, lamb kiftas, artichoke dip. Figure out how to make the oven cook at three different temperatures simultaneously. Put something in daugher's "Mice Stocking" for her pet mice (why don't the cats and our Sheltie get stockings?). Re-think Apricot Chantilly & Chocolate Elephant because they don't hold their shape well.) Glass of wine. Maybe two. Followed by extreme expresso. I'm so glad we have this wonderful vacation from the busy-ness of life; a time to relax and de-stress.