Well said Roxann, could not have said it better! The thing of it is, I think if people see your face more often, they seem to accept you more. Thats kind of what I have noticed, and without us newbies, entering our dogs, how would these people winning majors do it without newbies entries....My money, dog, personality and what have you is just as good as anyone elses. Believe me, I have had a lot of back trash myself when I first started, I even heard it and was crushed. Thats why I got away from it for a while but then Art came along and said just do it, who cares what anyone thinks,so thats what I am doing. And on top of all that, Iam really glad to have met you and some others that I have met....very helpful people...thanks. Giselda ----- Original Message ----- From: "roxann labra" <roxyjoefrankie@xxxxxxxxx> To: <Showgsd-l@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> Sent: Wednesday, July 07, 2010 11:27 PM Subject: [ SHOWGSD-L ] Helping Newbies Being fairly new to showing although i have always had German shepherds I'd like to say that we need more mentors helping out the newbies. It has been a rough road for myself trying to get people to be friendly and give advice without being put out. I recently approached a new person and gave advice on showing and she was greatly appreciative for my thoughtfulness. She also has had a hard time meeting people and making friends. She is young and very excited to show but was becoming disappointed in how she was treated. I have been lucky enough lately to get myself a good mentor and help guide me along and introduce me to people who seems to be very nice and some not so. But that is fine. I take it all in stride. I'm not a quitter and have prevailed through alot of mean remarks and laughs behind my back. It's the love for the breed that keeps me going. . My point is Help these new people yes, there competition but that's what it's all about. And without the new young and upcoming exhibitors and handlers you all ask, where will we be in the near future. I'd like to see more kindness and introductions to the new people you meet at shows. You never know they may teach us all a few new things and what does it hurt in meeting new friends and answering a few questions. Alittle kindness can go along way. ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2010. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://showgsd.org NATIONAL BLOG - http://gsdnational.blogspot.com/ ============================================================================