Dog showing is my hobby and I use to have so much fun. These past years, the fun is going away and I am starting to rethink about continuing this hobby that I love so much. Curious..........Why are you no longer having any fun?? Barbara TRocknroll@xxxxxxx wrote: > Everyone once in awhile I find the need to comment on a subject and this is > one. It has hit to close to home recently. Seems that more often than > not these past few years, I have been the one burnt and discouraged by > trying to be a good mentor and friend to our breed. > > Many years ago when I started in this breed, I found myself saying the same > thing that is stated below. People were not friendly and I felt like I > had the big "L" on my forehead and no one wanted to associate with a > beginner > and give advice. I vowed not to be like that. > > Well....now I understand why people don't reach out like they should. I > even went so far as to give my pick of the litter to new show people. It > was a huge mistake (but must say, it looks like it is turning out). Seems > "newbies" say they want to learn and listen but don't. > > I find it is better to stick to oneself instead of offering advice and > help. Dog showing is my hobby and I use to have so much fun. These past > years, the fun is going away and I am starting to rethink about continuing > this > hobby that I love so much. A person can be friendly, helpful, and try to > do all the right things for this breed and still get stabbed in the back and > trampled upon. That is why so many of us experienced people are backing > off and keeping to ourselves. Kindness is not look upon as just that > anymore. JMHO. > > > In a message dated 7/7/2010 11:28:26 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time, > roxyjoefrankie@xxxxxxxxx writes: > Being fairly new to showing although i have always had German shepherds > I'd like to say that we need more mentors helping out the newbies. It has > been a rough road for myself trying to get people to be friendly and give > advice without being put out. I recently approached a new person and gave > advice on showing and she was greatly appreciative for my thoughtfulness. > She > also has had a hard time meeting people and making friends. She is young and > very excited to show but was becoming disappointed in how she was treated. > I have been lucky enough lately to get myself a good mentor and help guide > me along and introduce me to people who seems to be very nice and some not > so. But that is fine. I take it all in stride. I'm not a quitter and have > prevailed through alot of mean remarks and laughs behind my back. It's the > love for the breed that keeps me going. . My point is Help these new people > yes, there competition but that's what it's all about. And without > the new young and upcoming exhibitors and handlers you all ask, where will > we be in the near future. I'd like to see more kindness and introductions > to the new people you meet at shows. You never know they may teach us all a > few new things and what does it hurt in meeting new friends and answering > a few questions. Alittle kindness can go along way. > > > > > ============================================================================ > POST is Copyrighted 2010. All material remains the property of the > original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS > of > any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND > of > the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. > > ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY > MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS > PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY > FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. 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