In a message dated 7/8/2010 12:28:17 AM Mountain Daylight Time, roxyjoefrankie@xxxxxxxxx writes: > Being fairly new to showing although i have always had German shepherds > I'd like to say that we need more mentors helping out the newbies. It has > been a rough road for myself trying to get people to be friendly and give > advice without being put out. Dear "roxyjoefrankie@xxxxxxxxx".... I love helping Newbies. When they listen. But here's the deal......how many newbies do you know that have even bought the first book on our breed? I remember when I first became "inflamed" I sought out every book I could find on the subjects of the history of the breed, breeding, gait, obedience, nutrition for dogs, canine reproduction, genetics (basic), etc. In saying that, I mean only to tell you that there is alot of homework that newbies can do, and in doing so, will go far in gaining the respect of your mentors. If the newbie is not willing to put in the hours and dedication, mentoring is an exercise in futility. Most of us "old-timers" have done our studies, taken our lumps, borne our back-stabbing and rudeness from older exhibitors of the time. We have been where you are and as much as we'd like to save you from all of it, it's impossible to impart any such wisdom in a nutshell at ringside. We are most DEFINITELY here to mentor you....but most of us are not willing to spoon-feed. If you love the breed and the sport (and it sounds like you do) you will prevail. Just toughen up, girl. <VBG> Jamie P.S. Quiz question: Who was Flora Berkemeyer and how does she compare with the dogs of today? ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2010. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://showgsd.org NATIONAL BLOG - http://gsdnational.blogspot.com/ ============================================================================