I wonder how much of family taking care of the elderly is mythology. I saw Tokyo Story on Saturday, 1953 movie, Japanese. It was one of those nothing happens movies but it was quite the study in Japanese family life. I was surprised. In 1953, and I suspect it's worse now, there was a big disconnect between generations and not much bonding within families. The parents in the movie lived long distances away from their grown children, and did not know their grandchildren. The parents go to visit their grown children, and they are treated politely, lots of bowing, but clearly they are a burden. The grandfather had been a heavy drinker when his children were growing up, regularly coming home drunk, so he was disconnected from them. There was no family to take care of this older Japanese couple. Generally there was an isolation in the movie among and between family members. And this is from the country that does ancestor worship. Ancestors are easy to worship; real peopl e are hard to deal with. I suspect China is not much different, lots of myth, but the reality is quite different (maybe Omar can tell us what happens to the elderly there). The United States has nothing to be proud of regarding its treatment of the elderly, for that matter of children or anyone else except corporations. Dubya wanted to get rid of Social Security. Companies are reneging on pensions, those that even supply any. Americans will soon have working retirements too. But I suppose by Lawrence's standards, this is a good thing. ----- Original Message ----- From: Lawrence Helm To: lit-ideas@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Sent: 4/18/2006 4:23:59 PM Subject: [lit-ideas] Growing Old the Hard Way: China, Russia, India Policy Review is one of the journals I subscribe to and the current issue has an excellent article on aging. Fortunately this is one of the articles they make available on their web site: http://www.policyreview.org/136/eberstadt.html The article is long, but inasmuch as Omar and I may be about to discuss China, I was especially interested in the section on China?s aging problem. Their problem is of course exacerbated by their decision to reduce the Chinese birthrate. In the past the sons took care of the aged, but increasing numbers of Chinese will not have sons available to do so. Lower wages, education levels, and poorer general health than in developed countries mean that huge numbers of aged Chinese will have to fend for themselves, taking on low paying physically demanding jobs that they are ill-equipped to perform. Thus, while China as Europe looks down upon the crass materialistic society of America, they are increasingly ill-equipped to provide the entitlements that help them to feel superior. Lawrence