[elky] Re: Race Car Sunday

  • From: John Christensen <johncgg@xxxxxxxxx>
  • To: elky@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
  • Date: Tue, 13 Sep 2011 09:53:05 -0500

She is fully functional in her job, and always has been. It is tough when
half the people she goes to their house have half full bottles all over. She
is ready for that challenge though. The rest of her life will be this way,
but she is starting now. Happy Birthday to Cindy.

Having a great morning, and new direction today. She has the hardest AA
meeting (the first) under her belt, but is looking forward to more of them.
Already got a voice mail from one female helper, and she is very positive. I
am here for the week to support her too. She is comfortable with others
knowing, and that (to me) is a sign that she has admitted it to herself, and
is ready to change.

Thanks for the +++~~~
JC

On Tue, Sep 13, 2011 at 9:45 AM, <STILLFRANKSFAULT@xxxxxxx> wrote:

> **
> Hey John, wow that's a tough nut to crack. I wish you the best on her way
> to recovery. I care about you two. +++~~~~~~
> PS: what about her dog sitting business?
> Smokey Mt Frank
>
>  In a message dated 9/13/2011 7:34:01 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time,
> johncgg@xxxxxxxxx writes:
>
> Events of the last few weeks, and what has been building for probably 2 or
> 3
> > years, have forced me to cancel the trip to the salt. As Ray is painfully
> > aware, Alcoholism is a nasty disease to which Cindy has fallen prey to.
> She
> > has admitted it to herself, and has gotten involved with some very
> helpful
> > people outside the family now in AA, and is excited about starting to
> battle
> > this disease. She is the daughter of an abusive alcoholic, and all 4 kids
> in
> > her family have pretty severe issues because of it (and the genetics of
> the
> > disease). Cindy just held out longer than the rest, probably because of
> > caring for Mom, and maybe in spite of it.
> >
> > No amount of money in the world can buy an almost 36 year relationship,
> so a
> > plane ticket was nothing for me to lose as a sacrifice. I am here for her
> > now in this critical time, and that's what counts. I guess this is a call
> > for the positive waves, it is not easy, but we will get through this. She
> > was pumped up about the meeting last night, where she met many that make
> her
> > situation seem tame in comparison, but no less serious. She is looking
> > forward to her next meeting, and learning to deal with this.
> >
>
>

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