Birth trauma or the core trauma of a person’s biological life is the
leverage point upon which all further healing of trauma can expand, even as
it extends into the collective and beyond the planetary.
I highly recommend the work of Emily Waymire on this.
On Mon, Feb 27, 2023 at 9:11 AM Rowena Mould <rowenamould@xxxxxxxxx> wrote:
Exactly where I went with the question.*Aitabé (eye-tah-BAY)*
Perhaps the trauma is a thread from the whole web of humanity and beyond –
hence the challenge of more accurately pin pointing the source in a
constellation setting.
The pain of many.
Thank you for the thread
Rowena
*From: *<constellationtalk-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> on behalf of "Isaac
Pizer ("isaacpizer")" <dmarc-noreply@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
*Reply to: *<constellationtalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
*Date: *Monday, 27 February 2023 at 12:50
*To: *<constellationtalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
*Subject: *[constellationtalk] Re: Exclusion
Thank you both - this is important, and led me to think about Thomas
Hubl's book concerning collective trauma.
Warm regards,
Isaac
Isaac Pizer M.A.
*Psychotherapy, Counselling & Clinical Supervision*
UKCP Registered Psychotherapist
07936-584046
www.derbypsychotherapyandcounselling.co.uk
*"That there is a true and timeless self, an Essential Self, a Self that
is not constructed in early life, *
*is widely known in most religions and spiritual teachings in both East
and West. *
*All throughout the ages the quest for the real and Essential Self has
been recorded in teachings, stories, poetry and art…*
*What is most intriguing is that this fact is almost entirely overlooked
by the very psychologists who make it their scientific work to study the
self.."*
*A.H. Almaas. *
On Mon, 27 Feb 2023 at 10:36, Julie Ulbricht <julie@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
wrote:
Hi Polly
I am interested in your question.
This is a bit far out; but it is an idea that came up very recently and
caught my attention, so may be relevant:
Let us say that part of what we are struggling with as human beings is
something that does not belong to us and in fact does not belong on this
planet. You could say that we have been infiltrated.
This idea resonates for me, as when we do Constellations, or when we look
at young children, we see our essential nature - our purity, which is
loving and which we are trying to get back to by finding a way of
releasing/transmuting what does not belong to us: that which is not innate.
Often we refer to that other aspect of ourselves as trauma (or it's
byproducts); but it seems to me that although trauma is an aspect of that,
it is more than just trauma, but a whole set of beliefs and erroneous ways
of viewing the world, including the belief that we are seperate from
others. Whether such views are all derived in the aftermath of trauma, or
whether they in fact have a 'life' and structure of their own, which would
make them more likely to be the cause of trauma, is an interesting question.
If part of us does not belong on this planet and is not innate, we would
naturally have a sense of not belonging; and yet underneath, when we get
beyond the limited view of that part, we would feel our deep and innate
connection to others, to nature and to life itself.
I'm not used to writing about this subject. It is challenging to express
in words!
Julie
*“Perhaps all the dragons in our lives are princesses who are only waiting
to see us act, just once, with beauty and courage. Perhaps everything that
frightens us is, in its deepest essence, something helpless that wants our
love.” *Rainer Maria Rilke
*Simple Ayurveda *
*Julie Ulbricht **BSc Ayurveda, PG Dip Ayurvedic Medicine*
*07529 549589 *
julie@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
*simpleayurveda.co.uk* <http://www.simpleayurveda.co.uk>
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*From:* constellationtalk-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx <
constellationtalk-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> on behalf of Polly Pring <
fromsourcetoself@xxxxxxxxx>
*Sent:* 27 February 2023 10:05:29
*To:* constellationtalk@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
*Subject:* [constellationtalk] Exclusion
In my work recently I have had several clients expressing feelings of
exclusion.
I am interesting in opening a conversation here about your experiences
with working with exclusion.
Exploring potential blind spots, unconscious bias and cultural signifiers
especially when a family constellation does not reveal the source of the
exclusion.
Looking forward,
Polly
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