Hi Polly
I am wondering if l imagined the knowing field as the facilitator if there
there is going to be a possibility of exclusion? The vastness of existence
including both facilitator and client includes in the vastness plus what
stands behind both. My take is that the mind will protest and will need to
put things in compartments hence if the facilitator perhaps sees the field
in chunks or division the exclusion arises, otherwise if the facilitator
embodies the whole or is swallowed by the field as a totality leaving only
the expanse of the field, l may ask myself from where can the exclusion be
felt or seen? The facilitator in my view brings the story in collusion with
the client's agenda and with the help of the two minds that seek
identification or identity will result in exclusion. This can be one
perspective which l understand could face resistance to apply since that
would mean the facilitator is the one excluded, the field is "empty and
whole in its oneness" in my view, but this view can be contested and the
contest also has a place. I am wondering without the story "l am excluded"
which is a thought by the way, who is it that is excluded and from where
would l be positioned to see the exclusion if not in my story seen from the
perspective of the person. In my opinion a part of the whole can be
excluded but the whole cannot exclude or be excluded, so whose view would
register exclusion if the story is not present. In the story is the
generational trauma and individual perspective until the identity, habit
and what to focus on are given their rightful place perhaps.
Am no expert, neither am l an authority so would be happy to read the
different perspectives from others to educate mine.
Thank you for the questions
Lawrence Ngorora
On Mon, 27 Feb 2023, 12:06 PM Polly Pring, <fromsourcetoself@xxxxxxxxx>
wrote:
In my work recently I have had several clients expressing feelings of
exclusion.
I am interesting in opening a conversation here about your experiences
with working with exclusion.
Exploring potential blind spots, unconscious bias and cultural signifiers
especially when a family constellation does not reveal the source of the
exclusion.
Looking forward,
Polly
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