In a message dated 5/17/2005 3:52:07 PM Central Daylight Time, phil.enns@xxxxxxxxxxx writes: Asking why Paul has no faith makes as much sense as asking why someone has faith. Both are equally nonsensical. Hi, Well, let's go deeper, then. <g> (and I do not mean that in a patronizing way--please know. Okay, I've talked and scolded myself for coming across that way!) Maybe we need to find a more appropriate question (since the ones being asked are nonsensical--though I am not sure that they are--but we'll go with it for now or else I might be patronizing...<sigh>) So, here it is, Paul: Why does it matter whether or not you have no faith or whether or not you might, eventually, have faith? Will life really change all that much for you if you do have faith, I wonder? Has Brian's life changed all that much since he has faith? Would it change, do you think, if he did not have faith? (would ask him myself but he thinks of me as patronizing and, well, you know how I am when I've been criticized. Though I suppose even being patronizing might be a positive thing in a particular context. Not sure which one, but I'm sure if I really worked at it, I could think of one...<g>) And, even if Phil thinks, like so many I know <wry look> that seeking to find answers for questions is simply nonsense, well--I will always walk along with someone who is searching. I might not be searching for the same things, but I'll keep you company inasmuch as I can...and I know we are not alone. We are, after all, on a List. And, life is, after all, about matches. Faithfully, Marlena in Missouri ------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html