John McCreery wrote: "Or is it just that we're all so accustomed to therapy speak, thanks to Oprah, Phil, etc., that we don't suck it up and somatize, i.e., express our hurt in physical symptoms, the way folks in Asia do?" Hey, hold on a second. I don't do therapy speak! Oh, you meant the other Phil. Ok, carry on. Sincerely, Not that Phil, Toronto, ON ------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html