Rebecca, here is my suggestions list on as to how you should proceed at this moment:(I have assumed you're running a WIN 9X PC) I recommend System Mechanic first because that way you'll be able to safely uninstall Gator, temporarily if you wish, or permanently (which I did, for I too was once enticed by their offer to be so unobtrusively helpful[bah, humbug]) I know that on this very list System Mechanic did not receive much praise, on the contrary, so at the time mum was the word for me but for a newbie or inexperienced PC user, it is a wonderful tool. You can test & use it for a free 30 day trial period, and it foresees & prevents a newbie from fowling his/her(Notice my political correctness)registry. You can first run "system" to "clean system registry". When it's through it will offer you a screenfull of invalid registry references. Delete the lot, summarily! Do it! Then you can run in "system" the "windows startup manager": From here you can safely stop "Gator". Just highlight the line where it is shown to exist and click on the "disable". Look at the list offered and scrutinize it for multiple instances of the same program running. If you're in doubt as to whether you "should or should not disable", remember that you can always return & enable the program again. But never, ever disable Explorer nor Systray!! (Read that again- never, ever disable Explorer or Systray!!!) For info: Iolo System Mechanic Info: http://www.iolo.com/sm/ Free 30 day trial: http://www.iolo.com/download/default1.htm when it offers to look for update via web choose "NO" or preferrably "NEVER". Then go here: http://www.analogx.com/contents/download/system.htm to AnalogX and download & install: "MaxMem"-it is a memory optimizer, make sure it runs on startup, i.e., it must appear in your systray when you crank up your PC(systray is where your clock is). Under configuration for the program(which you access by right clicking on its icon) for "memory boudaries" go with the suggsted valus(which you can adjust at any time) but in "Left-click Operation: on the drop down list choose "Perform Periodic cleanup". Then go here: Download from AnalogX cookieWall http://www.analogx.com/contents/download/network/cookie.htm Install it that it will start when you crank up your pc. Configure it to "Prompt" and when you're offered a cookie choose "accept temporarily", later by right clicking on the cookie icon in your systray you'll be offered a 3 column list which you can edit individually. Just highlight one or as many of the cookies on the "delete always" or the "cookies to keep" & choose what you prefer. Note: there are cookies that are placed in our PC's that I.D. us to certain sites, which if you should not accept will not let you enter. Thus the "accept temp" choice. Others you keep, for they facilitate your entering to check on email sites, etc.As time goes by you'll get the "feel" for this. To solve your security issues & obtain FREE(no catch) softwarego to : http://www.geocities.com/jansson_markus/software.html If I'm not mistaken some good peson offered us this site for reference on this very list(I believe it was Nasset Sr., TIA David) There you will find references to ZoneAlarm, Lavasoft, etc. Read all this and follow this fellow's advise, & you'll be a happier sufer, without all your icons in your systray disappearing on you. I advised you before to use AdAware & OptOut. http://www.lavasoftusa.com Did you? You'll then know of all the spyware in your system, this being the cause for your icons to disappear when you surf, for they are hogging your memory resources for themselves, on "YOUR" PC. Don't let them!!! You paid for it & they use it. Sounds like communism to me<g>. Someone else perhaps will surely offer better suggestions than mine, or I may have overlooked something important to highlight. But as Clarence said, I too would start by "shooting that gator".(LOL) Good luck Rebecca. Love, Armando. 8) God bless America! Castro is responsible for the Cuban people's misery and not the U.S. embargo. I wish you good health and much happiness, today and always. ________________________________________________ PeoplePC: It's for people. And it's just smart. http://www.peoplepc.com UNSUBSCRIBE by sending email to triadtechtalk-request@xxxxxxxxxxxxx with unsubscribe in the Subject field. To VIEW/CHANGE your subscription status go to //www.freelists.org/webpage/triadtechtalk