HI CArol, OH yes I've been at Malcolm's kissing his soft pinchable cheeks all day and trying to find some new hiding places for all that food places you would never think of even CAsper has been sworn to secrecy hahaha. OH I started going to Quakers in Novembger having heard from friends that they don't have strict rules and tell you what to do every-one sits in silence until some-one might have a word or a thought to share the meeting goes on for an hour and we all shake hands at the end of the meeting and there is time for afterthoughts and always tea and coffee afterwards. They except same sex marriage and men and women are treated as equals no-one is condemned as long as they live a good life. Miniistry isn't just for people who went to bible college and just beacuse something is not in the bible doesn't mean its not from God. I didn't know if I would really enjoy the silence but now I love it. I can be silent some times hahaha I know you don't believe me really hahahahaha. Take care. Love Sarah xxxxxxx