A very interested thread and very well grounded in constellation work. But now I must add a new dynamic. I am lesbian and I have had the frequent experiences of being selected to represent men in consellations. I have also represented many women. At first when I was selected to represented a man I felt very uncomfortable as a result of the socially constructed rules about men and women and more specifically the social constructed stigma of being gay. After many experiences representing men I came to understand and then accept and then celebrate that I had both female and male energy. What helped me learn this was trusting the field. Whether chosen by the seeker or the faciliator there was a reason to my being picked to represent a man.
