[bookshare-discuss] Re: sorry

  • From: Brian and Denise Albriton <autoharp@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
  • To: bookshare-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
  • Date: Sun, 6 Jan 2008 13:58:46 -0800 (PST)

When I lost my stepmother, I would have trouble focusing from time to time. My memory was hot. I would walk from one room to the other and wonder when I got to the other room what I was supposed to do. I have a regular meeting I attend, and at that meeting kept a year of silence in recognition of her loss.

Brian


On Sun, 6 Jan 2008, Pat Ferguson wrote:

Yes, and some times the tears come when you least expect it, and even in public when you are not prepared.

Lovingly,
Pat Ferguson

At 09:23 PM 1/5/2008, you wrote:
Yea, and it comes in such waves, when you least expect it, and sometimes the
numbness is so thick that nothing makes any sense.
Sharon

-----Original Message-----
From: Ann Parsons [mailto:akp@xxxxxxxxxxxx]
Sent: Saturday, January 05, 2008 10:15 PM
To: bookshare-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Subject: [bookshare-discuss] Re: sorry


Hi all,

Yes, it is difficult to lose a parent.  My mother said, after my
grandfather died that it was as if the earth trembled for her.   Having
lost both parents, I know  about grieving firsthand.

<sigh>  One of the things I have found is that this particular society
is unmindful of the needs of those who grieve.  we used to be, but
aren't any longer.

Used to be one would wear black for a year to signify that you were in
in mourning.  This gave you license for behavior which wouldn't be
condoned under other circumstances.

Maithe, if you're reading this, don't be surprised at anything that may
happen to you in the next few weeks and months.  My short term memory
went to Hell in a handbasket when my dad died.  I couldn't remember
what people said to me five minutes ago.  And the weirdest things can
set you off, either to weep or to be angry.  Grief is a very private
and personal thing, and it affects each person differently depending on
the person grieving and for whom they grieve.

Blessings,
Ann P.

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Ann K. Parsons
Portal Tutoring
EMAIL:  akp@xxxxxxxxxxxx
http://www.portaltutoring.info
"All that is gold does not glitter,
Not all those who wander are lost."

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