I can't believe the talk about upper level - lower level people. It is all in the mind of the beholder. I don't know any successful person who thinks of themselves as upper level. Successful people are still in the trenches doing, kennel work, picking up poop laughing at success and crying at failures- The problem with talking with any person at a dog show is timing. When anyone is getting their dog ready to go into the ring they are too busy to talk much, If the dog is in the ring they definitely can't talk at all. How many times have you been grabbed by someone who wants to know the whole pedigree and background of your dog when you have just been given the evil eye to get to the other side of the ring and call your dog. About the most you can do is say talk to me later. Timing is of the essence sally -----Original Message----- From: showgsd-l@xxxxxxxxxxxxx [mailto:showgsd-l@xxxxxxxxxxxxx] On Behalf Of Daleen Dunphy Sent: Sunday, December 17, 2006 7:47 AM To: showgsd-l@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Subject: [ SHOWGSD-L ] Re: new subject, why there are no newbies At 07:51 PM 12/16/2006, MarcatoGSD@xxxxxxx wrote: >I wish more people would suggest going to the "lower level" (who are NO less >important) because trying to talk to those "big names" is #1 intimidating and >#2 feel impossible...we don't want to take up their time. >The "Lower level" (read: the "normal" people) are approachable, because they >are like the newbies in terms of seeming "human". Trying to >approach somebody >like Jimmy Moses or Gloria or Cappy feels like trying to approach Brad Pitt >and Charlize Theron and Beyonce Knowles...you feel like falling apart because >you're in the midst of greatness, and you are the lowly newcomer. Reminds me of my fist National, I couldn't wait to get there and be able to talk to people I had only seen pics of or chatted with on the list. I went up and said hi to everyone - they don't call me the social butterfly for nuttin LOL Person I was with said they would never have the guts to go up to some of these "greats" I figured "hey they take their pants off to go to the bathroom like the rest of us" LOL Daleen Dunphy Amaleen German Shepherds "Where Temperament, Type and Movement all come together" http://www.geocities.com/amaleengsd ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2006. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - www.showgsd.org ============================================================================ ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2006. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - www.showgsd.org ============================================================================