Not all people in this breed are nasty and hurtful. But those that are stick out. They are the ones that leave the "great" impressions. Newbies will remember their antics displayed at a show or the rudeness given by a person. Never invite a newbie to a Specialty unless you are not showing and can sit there to explain what is going on during the judging. (As someone else commented, they'll talk to a newbie after the judging is done) understandable. But newbies have questions during the judging, the whys and how comes at that precise moment. Don't invite newbies to club meetings, especially if they are business meetings or tend to get heated. And if the newbie shows up dogless, never make a negative remark about types or breeders. Plain and simple ... If you have nothing nice to say ... keep your mouth close and negative opinions to yourself. When I started in this breed I was told if I wanted to last I would have to grow a thick skin. I was also told that if you had a dog that was good and gave competition be prepared for the cold shoulder, the rumors and all the other things people who are jealous will pull. And if you are an obedience person .... well you are a second rate citizen with a second rate dog! VBG in fact ROTFLMAO .... I am an obedience person, have bred a few litters over the years, shown in the F/M and own a few pieces of wood. Will I ever leave the breed? Definitely not. But there are areas that I choose not to show my dogs in, for reasons that have been hashed many times over on this list. Bottom line is ... my money, my dogs, my choice. I prefer to show my dogs in areas where I feel the total dog can be seen. My advise to Newbies .... This is your breed too, love your dog and enjoy your dog, make the choices that you want to live with and go for it. Ignore all negative behavior and most of all ... Have fun. This is a sport of "showing dogs" in all types of areas. You will meet nice people! Thirty years in this breed and still having fun! Lyn Chernak Lyn Chernak CherLyn Shepherds - Updated June 06,2010 http://www.cherlynshepherds.com Three Generations ~ GSDCA 13 Club ~ Membership CherLyn's Dixie, BH, CDX, RAE, TC, HIC, CGC Ulric vom Kriegerhaus, RN, TC, CGC ________________________________ From: "MyJoyGS@xxxxxxx" <MyJoyGS@xxxxxxx> To: showgsd-l@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Sent: Friday, October 14, 2011 9:09 PM Subject: [ SHOWGSD-L ] losing people in the breed You know people. There are some on the list that need to bad mouth when they can. A friend of mine posted on the list about dying and breeders and got this nasty email from someone badmouthing another breeder. My friend is not so sure she wants to continue with this list or GSD. She is one of many who think twice after being attacked, and you wonder why membership is going down and very few new members. Listen to yourself, if you don't like someone that is your right and unless asked keep your nasty trashing of people to yourself. I am soo sick of this. To my friend, we are all not like that please don't get discouraged! Joyce MyJoy Shepherds Home of Sel. Exc. Ch. Aramist's Enchanted of MyJoy OFA Hips/Elbows _http://myjoygs.tripod.com_ (http://myjoygs.tripod.com/) ===========================================================================POST is Copyrighted 2011. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. Each Author is responsible for the content of his/her post. This group and its administrators are not responsible for the comments or opinions expressed in any post. 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