Barbara, Great Post! That same comment "I'm nobody" also irritated me, but you beat me to the keys and said it well. Just ask your dogs what they think of you, this is about the breed. How odd that our dogs can get along yet they live with us and are influenced by us and they don't pick up the negative traits. Maybe people should start paying more attention to their dogs and learn from their behaviors. Especially if you find the need to be negative, be aloof instead. Lyn Lyn Chernak CherLyn Shepherds - Updated June 06,2010 http://www.cherlynshepherds.com Three Generations ~ GSDCA 13 Club ~ Membership CherLyn's Dixie, BH, CDX, RAE, TC, HIC, CGC Ulric vom Kriegerhaus, RN, TC, CGC ________________________________ From: Barbara Galasso <uwish@xxxxxxxxxx> To: grnram415@xxxxxxx; 'Showgsd-l' <Showgsd-l@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> Sent: Sunday, October 16, 2011 7:27 PM Subject: [ SHOWGSD-L ] Re: losing people in the breed I love the breed. I am a nobody. Can I tell you how much this statement irritates me!!! This is not the first time that I've seen this said!/If you love the breed, then darn it, YOU ARE A SOMEBODY!!! We need more people that LOVE the breed just because they're a German Shepherd and not for the amount of trophies they may win that collect dust on shelves. Those people that you mentioned in your letter that put people down.......well let's just say that they're the nobodies!! If they were "a somebody" then they wouldn't have the need to put "anybody" down./You are a lover of the German Shepherd breed and there's no better "somebody" to be and that we need more of!!! You keep on being that "somebody" that you are! Those "nobodies" are not "somebody" that you'd want to be anyway!!! Barbara I really wasn't going to speak on this subject. But, I think some folks just don't get it! I have been in GSD's for about 13years. Ok, a newbie to some. I have heard it all. To my face, behind my back and through the grapevine. I have been lambasted on the List as well as in private. I've had to block a couple people on the List for being evil to me in private emails. I went off the List for a time. But, I kept coming back. I did this because of the education and the comraderie that exists among the general population. There are negative Nellies in every aspect of our lives. There are people who feel better about themselves by putting others down. There are people who think they are better than everyone else and make sure everyone knows it by belitting others. There are some that have rose colored glasses and think all is good, no matter what the issue. Mostly, dog people are a family. I learned something a long time ago. One will run into all these people. Take what you can from each of them and use it to your benefit. Take the education or talent from the experts and leave the negativity and lack of ethics behind you. Look through the rose colored glasses but with discretion. Not everything is rosy, so do your homework. If you need help, don't be afraid to ask. If you have an opinion that is different, so be it. Don't take anything personally unless it is a direct attack. If it is, get your ducks in a row ad defend yourself. Don't be intimidated just because someone doesn't agree with you. I love the breed. I am a nobody. But, I continue to learn and enjoy what I do with my dogs. I am on other Lists that are just as snarky. It is the nature of these Lists. One cannot take them seriously or let them rule your life. JMHO Laura Thomas ============ ===========================================================================POST is Copyrighted 2011. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. Each Author is responsible for the content of his/her post. 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