Content-Type: Text/Plain; charset="iso-8859-1" Content-Transfer-Encoding: quoted-printable I have the same policy, 1st deposit taken, 1st pick etc. But I have nev= er had a problem with people upset they can't have a particular puppy becaus= e it has already been chosen. Sometimes I will have someone say they will wait for the next litter. But I always show the entire litter so they ca= n see how the puppies socialize with each other.=0D =0D Anita & the Furkids=0D Tarsha - waiting at the Rainbow Bridge - gone but never forgotten=0D www.shepherdhillkennels.com.au=0D =0D =0D My policy, for the infrequent times I even have a litter is to take a 50%= =0D deposit for the sex of the puppy the people are requesting. This starts=20 before=0D the litter is whelped, so if it turns out I can't accommodate their=0D preference for a boy or a girl, naturally I refund the deposit. People a= re=20 allowed=0D to come and visit and "pick" from the "available" puppies at six weeks i= n=20 the=0D order I received their deposit. I say all of this up front, make sure t= hey=0D understand that I'm looking to keep something/grow it out etc., and if t= hat s=0D not acceptable, so be it, I'm happy to give them other phone #s if I kno= w=0D anyone else who is expecting puppies.=0D =0D Finally, I told the man referenced above (and this is after a half dozen=0D progressively nastier e-mails) the only way he could "pick" was to buy a bitch=0D from someone, breed her, whelp the puppies, go through all that that enta= ils=0D and THEN "pick" his puppy! On the bright side, three puppies from the l= ast=0D litter went to companion homes. Two of those asked me to pick what puppy= I=0D thought would make the best new puppy for them so it all worked like a ch= arm=0D <G>. As far as seeing the litter mates once they have chosen their puppi= es, it=0D depends on what else is going on . It's a wonderful way to socialize, b= ut=0D there have been times when children who have been on their best behavior have=0D been at their melting point <VBG>, so in that case I bring out a big dog for=0D them to rough house with and forgo the socialization for the puppies.=0D =0D You know, Emily, it's just as well the people you mention didn't take a=0D puppy. If things are that uncomfortable at the start, it's usually not a= =20 good=0D sign for what's to come:)=0D =0D Kathy=0D visit _Pine Hill German Shepherd Dogs_=0D (http://www.geocities.com/pinehillgsds/)=0D =0D =0D =3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D= =3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D= =3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D= =3D=0D POST is Copyrighted 2004. All material remains the property of the origi= nal author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND o= f the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED.=0D =0D ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSL= Y FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL = BE PROSECUTED.=0D =0D For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxxx=0D =0D VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://www.showgsd.org=0D =3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D= =3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D= =3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D= =3D ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2004. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://www.showgsd.org ============================================================================