> [Original Message] > From: Judith Evans <judithevans001@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx> > To: <lit-ideas@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> > Date: 12/11/2005 12:49:44 PM > Subject: [lit-ideas] Re: What Phil and Ursula said > > > --- Andy Amago <aamago@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote: > > > JMcC> > What do you mean by "mean"? If it's not too > mean > > to ask? > > > Blaming the victim, not even trying to see my point > > of view, that it was > > the only way out of the situation. > > That's perhaps because it wasn't the only way out. > > This is getting old. In your opinion it wasn't the only way out, because you weren't in that situation. > Having said > > that, I *do* see the hurt I > > inflicted, and I can't tell you how deeply I regret > > it. > > > Well "hurt" varies. It isn't like losing a friend or > family member of lover -- or like being cheated on by > a lover. I was more annoyed than anything else. But > there's something in Eric's invoking of what Ursula > said: this list is a bit like a community, it seems, > anyway, somehow "safer" than the big WWW out there..., > more secure than most newsgroups. > This is a lovely community. The origin of my troubles notwithstanding, I think Andreas does a great job maintaining this list. For Julie, I saw Being John Malkovich quite a while ago. At the time I remember seeing a lot more in it than just one person inside another person. It was too long ago, but I vaguely remember thinking the movie was about states of reality and the like. [Raggedy] Andy > Judy Evans > Cardiff > > > > > > > > ___________________________________________________________ > Yahoo! Exclusive Xmas Game, help Santa with his celebrity party - http://santas-christmas-party.yahoo.net/ > ------------------------------------------------------------------ > To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, > digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html ------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html