---------- Forwarded message ---------- From: laurie ornstein <laurenmadeline@xxxxxxxxx> Subject: further Facebook issues Hi Everyone, Although I am not yet ready to use Facebook with my pupils, I have been following this engaging thread. Privacy has been a headliner here. And I'd like to expand on this in another direction. As many of you know, I work in the Negev Bedouin Sector. Recently, a well-meaning teacher-librarian in one of the schools helped a female pupil to open a Facebook account. However, this educator did not take into account then the possible implications of the social network on the girl. Not long after, this teen was "caught" by a male family member chatting with a boy on Facebook. The result was her being pulled out of school by her family and she has not been allowed to return to her studies despite efforts made by the school and other concerned educators. This very bright young woman's life has been ruined by this incident. Of course, she should have taken personal responsibility for her deeds but I'm not sure she herself understood how she could be "seen" and if she had thought this through carefully. It's clear that the educator who helped her connect, did not sit down with her and explain all the sides of Facebook to this pupil. I realize that this is not the situation with the majority of pupils in Israel. However, I sincerely ask you to think hard and long before connecting with your class via Facebook. Make sure that none of your pupils will be hurt by such a move. I'm sure there are many traditional families that might have serious problems with such social or educational connections. On the eve of the holiday of freedom, let me wish those celebrating Pesach, Chag Sameach Laurie ----------------------------------------------- ** Etni homepage - http://www.etni.org ** for help - ask@xxxxxxxx ** ** to post to this list - etni@xxxxxxxxxxxxx ** -----------------------------------------------