Hi Cathy, I think that external help is essential and, as you stated, comes in many different ways. For example, outside school hours care is an essential form of help (at least, I think so) and is very rarely counted as one (it is not counted as 'domestic' help). The ones I have used include ironing and cleaning services (and am I envious of Christine's helper that even did her shopping!). I also count the ready and almost ready made meals from supermarkets, butchers and Leonard's, and obviously my very good local Indian, Thai, and Chinese restaurants. The family prefers making their own pizzas but even then we use the ready made bases. I do envy my family in Portugal that have people that come on set days of the week to their home. These people do the shopping, cleaning, washing, and ironing all in one go and at an affordable rate. Well, my two cents worth. Back to work! Cheers, Ana --- Cathy.Morison@xxxxxxxxx wrote: > This is probably not relevant to most on the list, > so if you are not a > working mother you can delete this now. > > My husband and I have this ongoing 'discussion' > about how working = > mothers in > the 'real world' cope with the combined roles. One > question that we = > haven't > been able to determine is what percentage of working > mothers seek = > external > 'domestic' help in one form or another. This issue > would obviously = > relate to > working mothers in any field.=20 > > Just a matter of interest! > > Cathy Morison > Technical Writer > Database Development, PMD > Geoscience Australia > ABN: 80 091 799 039=20 > Website: www.ga.gov.au=20 > ************************************************** > To post a message to austechwriter, send the message > to austechwriter@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx > > To subscribe to austechwriter, send a message to > austechwriter-request@xxxxxxxxxxxxx with "subscribe" > in the Subject field. > > To unsubscribe, send a message to > austechwriter-request@xxxxxxxxxxxxx with > "unsubscribe" in the Subject field. > > To search the austechwriter archives, go to > www.freelists.org/archives/austechwriter > > To contact the list administrator, send a message to > austechwriter-admins@xxxxxxxxxxxxx > ************************************************** __________________________________ Do you Yahoo!? Free Pop-Up Blocker - Get it now http://companion.yahoo.com/ ************************************************** To post a message to austechwriter, send the message to austechwriter@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx To subscribe to austechwriter, send a message to austechwriter-request@xxxxxxxxxxxxx with "subscribe" in the Subject field. To unsubscribe, send a message to austechwriter-request@xxxxxxxxxxxxx with "unsubscribe" in the Subject field. To search the austechwriter archives, go to www.freelists.org/archives/austechwriter To contact the list administrator, send a message to austechwriter-admins@xxxxxxxxxxxxx **************************************************