Hi Cathy Why limit this to mothers? Singles living alone also have work overload issues. I simply cannot cope with 12-13 hour working days (including commuting), maintaining a house, maintaining a garden, maintaining my food and clothing, maintaining my car, bathing the dog, keeping the books, doing the GST et al.=20 So I reduce the list by two items while I am working. I get someone to clean for 2 hours a week, and I get someone to mow if I have a lawn. I will probably also go with a company like Entity full-time so that I no longer have to keep the books and do the GST/tax returns.=20 And for no particularly religious reason I declare Sunday as a Sabbath. What doesn't get done Saturday doesn't get done. In the past I have had an excellent cleaner who would do extra hours for all the stuff that didn't get done - pick up shopping, sort out dry cleaning and pretty much adapt to anything I asked of her.=20=20 Christine -----Original Message----- From: Cathy.Morison@xxxxxxxxx [mailto:Cathy.Morison@xxxxxxxxx]=20 Sent: Tuesday, December 16, 2003 9:55 AM To: austechwriter@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Subject: atw: Mother and writer? (OT) This is probably not relevant to most on the list, so if you are not a working mother you can delete this now. My husband and I have this ongoing 'discussion' about how working =3D mothers in the 'real world' cope with the combined roles. One question that we =3D haven't been able to determine is what percentage of working mothers seek =3D external 'domestic' help in one form or another. This issue would obviously =3D relate to working mothers in any field.=3D20 Just a matter of interest! Cathy Morison Technical Writer Database Development, PMD Geoscience Australia ABN: 80 091 799 039=3D20 Website: www.ga.gov.au=3D20 ************************************************** To post a message to austechwriter, send the message to austechwriter@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx To subscribe to austechwriter, send a message to austechwriter-request@xxxxxxxxxxxxx with "subscribe" in the Subject field. To unsubscribe, send a message to austechwriter-request@xxxxxxxxxxxxx with "unsubscribe" in the Subject field. To search the austechwriter archives, go to www.freelists.org/archives/austechwriter To contact the list administrator, send a message to austechwriter-admins@xxxxxxxxxxxxx ************************************************** Notice: The information contained in this e-mail message and any attached files may be confidential information, and may also be the subject of legal professional privilege. If you are not the intended recipient any use, disclosure or copying of this e-mail is unauthorised. If you have received this e-mail in error, please notify the sender immediately by reply e-mail and delete all copies of this transmission together with any attachments. ************************************************** To post a message to austechwriter, send the message to austechwriter@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx To subscribe to austechwriter, send a message to austechwriter-request@xxxxxxxxxxxxx with "subscribe" in the Subject field. To unsubscribe, send a message to austechwriter-request@xxxxxxxxxxxxx with "unsubscribe" in the Subject field. To search the austechwriter archives, go to www.freelists.org/archives/austechwriter To contact the list administrator, send a message to austechwriter-admins@xxxxxxxxxxxxx **************************************************