[administrating-your-public-servants] Re: How to say no to adult children who ask for money, etc.

  • From: Aéius Cercle of Quantum-Note(Law-Division) <Law@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
  • To: administrating-your-public-servants@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
  • Date: Sat, 6 Nov 2021 19:02:31 -0600

Western-Culture is just /so/ screwed up that most people /really are/ better off «breaking from their parents» and building up their /own/ life _without_ the /constant/ nagging, /unreasonable/ criticisms, frequent life-/interference/, dishonest-/deceptions/, /manipulative/-behaviours, and even often-times /violent/ abuse that is so often the case with «egotistical/narcissistic/$$$-worshipping» parents (FAR more common than is realised by people who grew up in house-holds/families where none of their parents or family members were CONSTANTLY ANGRY ALL the god-damn time for NO REASON [if you cannot «fathom» this _reality_, then, consider, how absolutely _insane_ and /hypocritical/ those liberal-democrat-lefties/CNN-watching-normies/NPCs/state-worshipping-authoritarians/etc., are, then try to picture yourself living under the same roof as them, and how «psychotic» they will act towards you if you /even consider/ being a Trump-Supporter, and, whether you could /tolerate/ such a thing being a DAILY routine]). See also «Breaking From Your Parents» [Book] by Daniel Mackler (said author also has YT-Channel with many loyal-followers/subscribers).

Corrupt Cops act the way I have described in the above paragraph, and, evidence from the world-stage has demonstrated and proven beyond all /reasonable/ doubt, that there are NO LACK of corrupt-cops in the world-society. God help us if/when these types of people end up taking «leadership-positions» (e.g. : governor, prime-minister, emperor, mayor, police-chief, president, director, CEO, etc., etc.) at _every_ «level» of «society» .../!/

On 06.11.2021 06:50, Ray Greninger (raygreninger) wrote:

This notion of pull yourself up by your own bootstraps is a uniquely American idea. The idea is absurd. Put your boots on and try to lift yourself up, can’t be done. We need each other, our families and God’s help to get by in this world. The man or woman who brags “ look at what I have built” celebrates only himself and leaves out God from whom ALL things come.

On Nov 6, 2021, at 6:30 AM, Charley Dan <charleydan@xxxxxxxxx> wrote:

Shinning emperor
Well, put. Qoute
Our land is lacking high wisdom people

Teach our children both linear and non-linear reasoning and thought patterns.
On Nov 5, 2021, 10:26 PM -0600, Shining Emperor <nrcwinner@xxxxxxxxx>, wrote:
God given family with love and care is the most basic stronghold to sustain a high-level consciousness society or hu-man had no difference than beast or animals.  Higher wisdom always remembered and practiced by loving, caring cultures.


Money is just one type of energy, which man's civil law of inheritance ( inner circle of families) are taught by God- inspired celescial law.

Western societies failed to respect higher law of true love, compassion, righteousness,  empathy.....which Eastern cultures still respect through their long histories baded on virtues, morality.  The reasons why Eastern cultures are more loving, close-family-relationship, more successful,  less selfishness, less greed, less problems.

Your personal situation, preferences, liking should be separatedfrom higher wisdom.  Personal upbring is just a sad, sorrowful situation of lacking love.

Our world is so lacking of high wisdoms people....that make people emotionally-insufficient, virtually-deficiant.

Lifetime parents should have wisdom to help their children the right way to help them growing spiritually.

Hand-me-down doesn't and can't apply in parent child family relations when it is based on HEALTHY, DIVINE perceptions.

I have often seen and felt Western people are cold, emotionless, out of touch.... Devils will have NO POWER on a True loving society.



On Fri, Nov 5, 2021, 20:07 Aéius Cercle of Quantum-Note(Law-Division) <Law@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:

    You shouldn't be encouraging a culture that expects to live a
    «hand-me-down-inheritance-life-style» to /expect/ there to
    /always/ be «bail-outs» available; even I had to live much of my
    life in a manner of a homeless-orphan (which, honestly, was much
    less stressful than dealing with «indoctrinated»
    college-cult-mentality, brain-washed unreasonable parents), one
    of the reasons why «cops» REALLY PISS ME OFF, because of their
    EXTORTIONIST-PRACTICES against anybody who didn't some-how
    manage to grow up in some privileged environment/life-style,
    back whilst I was WORKING MY ASS OFF AT OVER 80+ HOURS PER WEEK
    starting from practically GROUND-ZERO (financially & resource-wise).

    This «mentality» of «well, why don't you just ask your parents
    for help» or «ask your parents for $$$» was EXACTLY WHY I
    /stopped/ telling people I even HAD parents, and, passed myself
    off as a homeless-orphan so that these «Americans» would STOP
    with the /fucking/ «ask your parents to help you» bullocks. If
    you REALLY want to «support your children» then you are better
    off teaching them «problem-solving» skills that allows them to
    figure out (on their own) the answer(s) as to how to solve any
    issues that they may encounter in life (but if you, yourself,
    are lacking in this skill-set, then, what the hell are you doing
    being a parent!?).

    On 05.11.2021 17:01, Shining Emperor wrote:
    You as lifetime parents support your children in this lifetime
    as parent duty and love regardless their age - *true love for
    your children.*

    Whatever you say, your mindsets have degrade your family
    relationship due to selfishness.

    On Fri, Nov 5, 2021 at 7:57 AM Michael Glavic
    <dmarc-noreply@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:


        How to say no to adult children who ask for money
        
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            How to say no to adult children who ask for money

        Parents need to balance supporting their kids financially
        while also having enough for their own retirement

        
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        No mention of "loaning" money, (where we can all be
        winners, or, more importantly, supported) like we
        understand where credit is deserved and due, otherwise?
        Like, I don't "give" enough. I figure I do.

        What's with the socialist model of "giving," (with
        political socialists, usually what ain't theirs to be
        giving, but very certainly, /short/ of justice in such
        regard, what counts /first/ with me) anyway? Families are
        bad enough, /without/ such consideration if not,
        information, as with actually teaching each other, but
        especially our children, something of "value".

        Don't lose your teaching opportunities, but go with
        lending, also for yourself, to see where as much takes
        things, and consider only giving "charity" where the other
        doesn't pass the test, where, you don't need it for
        yourself, I say, /and try to do../

        You need to be around for your children, if not for
        everyone, as long as you can, pretty much, or, well, you're
        not part of the picture, and everyone should care (that you
        would be) in such respect, or, well, they'd be part of the
        problem as far as I'm concerned. Please do invest wisely in
        such respect, and don't just throw what you have earned and
        /deserve/ around, willy-nilly...


        Champion of wealth, including Justice, Etc.

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