You shouldn't be encouraging a culture that expects to live a
«hand-me-down-inheritance-life-style» to /expect/ there to /always/ be
«bail-outs» available; even I had to live much of my life in a manner of
a homeless-orphan (which, honestly, was much less stressful than dealing
with «indoctrinated» college-cult-mentality, brain-washed unreasonable
parents), one of the reasons why «cops» REALLY PISS ME OFF, because of
their EXTORTIONIST-PRACTICES against anybody who didn't some-how manage
to grow up in some privileged environment/life-style, back whilst I was
WORKING MY ASS OFF AT OVER 80+ HOURS PER WEEK starting from practically
GROUND-ZERO (financially & resource-wise).
This «mentality» of «well, why don't you just ask your parents for help»
or «ask your parents for $$$» was EXACTLY WHY I /stopped/ telling people
I even HAD parents, and, passed myself off as a homeless-orphan so that
these «Americans» would STOP with the /fucking/ «ask your parents to
help you» bullocks. If you REALLY want to «support your children» then
you are better off teaching them «problem-solving» skills that allows
them to figure out (on their own) the answer(s) as to how to solve any
issues that they may encounter in life (but if you, yourself, are
lacking in this skill-set, then, what the hell are you doing being a
parent!?).
On 05.11.2021 17:01, Shining Emperor wrote:
You as lifetime parents support your children in this lifetime as parent duty and love regardless their age -*true love for your children.*
Whatever you say, your mindsets have degrade your family relationship due to selfishness.
On Fri, Nov 5, 2021 at 7:57 AM Michael Glavic <dmarc-noreply@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:
How to say no to adult children who ask for money
<https://www.theglobeandmail.com/life/article-how-to-say-no-to-adult-children-who-ask-for-money/#comments>
How to say no to adult children who ask for money
Parents need to balance supporting their kids financially while
also having enough for their own retirement
<https://www.theglobeandmail.com/life/article-how-to-say-no-to-adult-children-who-ask-for-money/#comments>
No mention of "loaning" money, (where we can all be winners, or,
more importantly, supported) like we understand where credit is
deserved and due, otherwise? Like, I don't "give" enough. I figure
I do.
What's with the socialist model of "giving," (with political
socialists, usually what ain't theirs to be giving, but very
certainly, /short/ of justice in such regard, what counts
/first/ with me) anyway? Families are bad enough, /without/ such
consideration if not, information, as with actually teaching each
other, but especially our children, something of "value".
Don't lose your teaching opportunities, but go with lending, also
for yourself, to see where as much takes things, and consider only
giving "charity" where the other doesn't pass the test, where, you
don't need it for yourself, I say, /and try to do../
You need to be around for your children, if not for everyone, as
long as you can, pretty much, or, well, you're not part of the
picture, and everyone should care (that you would be) in such
respect, or, well, they'd be part of the problem as far as I'm
concerned. Please do invest wisely in such respect, and don't just
throw what you have earned and /deserve/ around, willy-nilly...
Champion of wealth, including Justice, Etc.
