I think OBOL has been great...if something comes up that sounds like it might be a negative or contentious conversation, I just skip it! I consider myself a novice birder and haven't been a subscriber to OBOL for long. I have tons of questions and some of them I actually get the nerve to ask on line....and I don't think anyone has been grouchy with me so far! I think your comments are good ones, Dave, and I appreciate you writing. I plan to continue to be a supporter of OBOL. Susie Deagle > I enjoy all the information that is available & where to find birds. I > don't post because I'm more interested in bird behavior and habitat then > counting birds. Thanks to all of you who do. Judy > > Sent from my iPad > > On Jul 7, 2014, at 4:08 PM, DJ Lauten and KACastelein > <deweysage@xxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote: > >> Hello Obolites, >> >> So, I got this email today (below) from a relatively new OBOLer. >> >> 1) Sad that some people refuse to contribute to OBOL. >> >> 2) Sad that they won't because apparently we have a reputation for being >> "grouchy people". >> >> I will say that not contributing to OBOL because you think some of us are >> "grouchy" is a bit defeating. Just because some politicians are grouchy >> doesn't mean we shouldn't participate. Maybe if these folks contributed >> more it wouldn't be such a grouchy place. Be the change you seek. >> >> But with that said, maybe the heavy weights involved here ought to check >> themselves at the OBOL door and try a little harder not to be grouchy. If >> you don't have something nice to say, don't say it. >> >> And maybe this is all like the fog blowing past my house right now. It >> will come and go and form and reform and evaporate, over and over again. >> Eventually the sun shines through. >> >> Carry on, >> >> Cheers >> Dave Lauten >> OBOL moderator >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> I would have to assume it is no secret that many birders read obol but shy >> away from posting due to the attitudes of some of the participants. I am new >> to birding and have posted some pretty silly questions. Not once have I >> been chastised, but the main debates seem to be between experienced people. >> When I am out birding I almost always ask other birders what they have seen, >> what they might be looking for. When I have asked if they frequent obol I >> have gotten mostly eye rolling about grouchy people. I personally know >> people that are intimidated and do not post even though they have valid >> questions. I sometimes post for other people because of that. >> >> Then there are people like Bob archer who challenged me to determine what >> type of hawk I had submitted a photograph of and explain my reasoning. I >> loved that response, a natural teacher. It was a cooper's, not a sharpie >> and he explained why after I had sent him my reasoning. >> >> I guess the reason I am writing this is to try and find a way to keep obol >> positive and encourage recreational birders like me. I do like many of the >> more serious post and scientific nature of much of obol but some dissuade >> people from participating. >> >> Not my place to say any of this really, please don't take offense. I have >> had a great time recently finding new places and new birds and would love to >> encourage more people to get involved. >> >> I have gone out birding with very knowledgeably person, one of the most >> prolific posters on Ebird and he reads obol, but I have seen only one >> posting from him. He said he doesn't post because of the attitude of some >> people. He would benefit obol with his knowledge. >> >> >> >>