**** ETNI on the web http://www.etni.org.il http://www.etni.org **** Together with children who are merely sullied, we also meet children who are crippled and injured; there are those kinds of wounds that leave no scars, that heal themselves under a clean dressing. The healing of lacerated wounds however takes longer; they leave painful scars; they shouldn't be irritated. Sores and ulcers require greater attention and patience. That folk proverb says: "A healing body." One would like to add "and soul." How many scratches and contagions are there in schools and nurseries, how many temptations and troublesome whispers; and what a lot of fleeting and innocent activity. We need not have fear of dangerous epidemics where the atmosphere of the school is healthy, where there is plenty of fresh air and sunlight. How wisely, gradually, and wonderfully does the process of recovery take place! How many wonderous secrets are concealed in the blood, in body secretions and tissues! How every disturbed function and damaged organ strives to regain normalcy, to be back on track! How many marvels are there in the growth of plants and in man, in the heart and brain, in the breathing mechanism! At the faintest emotion or exertion and the heart beats faster, the pulse quickens. The child's spirit has this same power and endurance. There exist both a moral balance as well as an alertness of the conscience. It isn't true that children are easily infected. Correctly, though late unfortunately, pedagogy found its way into school programs. Without understanding the harmony of the body, its impossible to acquire respect for the mysteries of healing. A botched diagnosis lumps together all kinds of children ? the agile, ambitious, critical ? all awkward but clean and healthy ? with the resentful,sullen, and distrustful ? debased, tempted, frivolous, meekly following bad examples. An inexperienced, careless, and shallow observation mixes them all together and equates them erroneously with the fewer criminal and bad types. I reach for the greatest understanding, the most difficult enlightenment. Patient and sympathetic know-how are needed to deal with offenses and misdemeanors; transgressors need love. Their angry rebellion is justified. One has to feel sorry for an easy virtue, measure up to the solitary, damned offense. When, if not now, will he receive the flower of a smile? The Child's Right to Respect Avi Tsur ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- Tired of spam? Get advanced junk mail protection[1] with MSN 8. --- Links --- 1 http://g.msn.com/8HMBEN/2734??PS= ##### To send a message to the ETNI list email: etni@xxxxxxxxxxxxx ##### ##### Send queries and questions to: ask@xxxxxxxx #####