**** ETNI on the web http://www.etni.org.il http://www.etni.org **** >"You will never understand children > If you belittle their qualities." > Janusz Korczak I do believe in discipline in the classroom, but after that, positive-stroking is essential. When I was a one-on-one volunteer 'reading partner', I was always whispering 'very good' or 'try again, we'll get the word together as partners; you can't fail'. I emphasized 'partnership'. Kids were never afraid or embarrassed to read with me. They actually looked forward to our weekly time together. We also alternated reading pages. Positive-stroking costs nothing but is worth millions. Don't we all wish we were more postively-stroked when we were kids? What's more, my postive-stroking postively-stroked me in return; it just felt so good. Gary (Gershon) Calgary, Canada _________________________________________________________________ STOP MORE SPAM with the new MSN 8 and get 2 months FREE* http://join.msn.com/?page=features/junkmail ##### To send a message to the ETNI list email: etni@xxxxxxxxxxxxx ##### ##### Send queries and questions to: ask@xxxxxxxx #####