Oh, Kelly! Your poor mom! This makes me hurt just to read about it. And that's funny, because my partner worries about the same... that if I have odd bruises, or because I'm naturally quiet around other people, the impression might be that I'm being abused! LOL I think many of my worst mishaps happened during the transition of losing my sight; I suppose I was still operating as though I expected to see more than I actually could. I have no vision now, but I still walk too quickly (too quickly by other people's standards, I guess. I don't find it to be a problem. *grin* One reason why a dog is probably better for me than a cane.) Joanie ----- Original Message ----- From: "Kellie Hartmann" <hart0421@xxxxxxx> To: <bksvol-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> Sent: Friday, March 18, 2005 8:13 AM Subject: [bksvol-discuss] Re: Wife as aide > Joanie, > Life definitely isn't fair. <lol> When crazy things like this happen to my > sighted friends I usually tell them, "I'm blind--what's your excuse?" <lol> > A couple summers ago my mom, who is fully sighted, was outside when she > heard the phone ringing. She whipped around and launched... right into an > oak tree. She actually cracked her cheekbone right below her eye. Of course > it turned a myriad of undesirable colors and hurt like crazy for a month. > Despite that, I think the real victim of all this was her poor husband. > Whenever they went anywhere, people gave him dirty looks and were rude to > him because they thought he'd beaten her. Finally he pretty much refused to > go places with her until it healed up. <lol> My mom thought the whole thing > was pretty funny and stupid despite the pain and the silly questions and > jokes. > The only time I remember running into a tree I was on rollerblades, and the > worst result was that I got a bunch of pine sap stuck in my hair. It wasn't > a head-on collision--I veered off the driveway I was skating on, despite the > fact that I was using my cane to follow the edge, and sideswiped the tree. > Kellie > > > >