Dearest Karen, My heart is breaking for you, along with all the members of this list. No one could have tried harder to do all that was medically possible to keep Met alive, happy and working. Your devotion to Met is and was the greatest gift you could have ever have given that good dog. When we have done all we can, we can only give unconditional love and share our hearts and souls as much as possible. It was a year ago the 21st of this month that I said goodbye to Peek, my SD for a decade. Like you, as the end neared, and every possible choice of treatment had been exhausted, I allowed him to accompany me when he felt able, even if it was just for a 1/2 block walk. How happy he was just to take that short walk and perhaps, when he was feeling strong enough, to be asked to retrieve a bottle or hamburger wrapper off the sidewalk. Those 10 minute trips were like spiritual rejuvenation for him, an affirmation that no matter how little we have to give, that little bit is very appreciated, precious, and worthwhile. You are right. There will never be another Met in your life. There are dogs--great dogs, great pets, great service dogs, great guides--who may enter our lives and help us to remain independent, and who will have a special place in our heart. But when we also have lived with a "heart dog," the dog who does so much more than asked, the dog who senses our needs before we do, I guess all we can do is be grateful for that experience in our life, knowing that there are people who will never get an opportunity to experience that kind of closeness and bonding. Would we have rather never known that dog than to have had to say goodbye? I know the pain of impending loss, and the actual loss is unbearable. But if, in my quietest and most honest hours, I try to answer that question--I always come up with the same answer. My grief is worth the years of love, companionship and service, because my life is better for having lived with and been loved by that special heart dog. I try to focus on this, but it's hard work of the heart, of the emotions. When the acute pain of the loss begins to lessen, the emotional loss remains, and that hole in our heart mends just a bit, but is always there. I'm a pretty practical person. I've lived a long time, I've had many wonderful dogs, and when I've had to let them go, I grieved and moved on. But there are those "heart dogs" who never leave us, and never let us forget just how extraordinary they were, or what a sacred place they held in our hearts, our lives. It transcends their excellent working abilities--it's all about unconditional love, and having had the experience of a lifetime sharing something that special with an unforgettable and irreplaceable dog. Just remember that for all Met has done for you--you have done the same for Met. Met's commitment and love for you is every bit as strong, and death cannot break that spiritual bond of love you shared. My heart weeps with you. Debi Davis Las Vegas, NV