Hi List, Below is a copy of an email I sent to Evan for his legal advice-- (havent heard from him yet) I wonder what you listers would do here?? this is becoming a big problem and I am not sure what to do so I could use some input. I expect her to call me tonite. Thanks, Cheri Hunt----Cheradon Shepherds Home of Ch. Cheradon AchtungErynbrook Molokai, TC, OFA H&E, PA,TH,CA, Eyes Cert. and Certificate of Health Merit Excellent from the GSDCA (aka Ch. Mikey) Ch. Mikey and his sister, Cameo --see her here: Cameo's site Hi Evan, I need your advice PLEASE. As a lawyer. I sold a puppy (well--a VERY BIG puppy-a year old male) named Montana, to a lady on May 17th of this year. I sold him on a co-ownership, with the idea that he will be shown at least a littleâ??and if he turns out really nice, he will be shown properly. He is out of my Champion Mikey and his mother is half sister to Dallas, so he has a nice pedigree. She can afford to do this, and agreed to my request. (which is also in the sales contract.) She spent probably 4 hours at my home and we talked and I THOUGHT I had gotten to know her enough to sell her the dog. She was--and still is--very sincere. She absolutely fell in love with Montana, he responded well with her, I thought everything was great. At the time she told me she needed to get her stockade fence fixed first before she took him home and asked if I would hold him for her for a week or 2 till she got the fence fixed? Of course I told her I would--no problem. Well, it is now over 5 MONTHS later and she STILL has not taken this dog home. Cheri Hunt----Cheradon Shepherds Home of Ch. Cheradon AchtungErynbrook Molokai, TC, OFA H&E, PA,TH,CA, Eyes Cert. and Certificate of Health Merit Excellent from the GSDCA (aka Ch. Mikey) Ch. Mikey and his sister, Cameo --see her here: Cameo's site Hi Evan, I need your advice PLEASE. As a lawyer. I sold a puppy (well--a VERY BIG puppy-a year old male) named Montana, to a lady on May 17th of this year. I sold him on a co-ownership, with the idea that he will be shown at least a littleâ??and if he turns out really nice, he will be shown properly. He is out of my Champion Mikey and his mother is half sister to Dallas, so he has a nice pedigree. She can afford to do this, and agreed to my request. (which is also in the sales contract.) She spent probably 4 hours at my home and we talked and I THOUGHT I had gotten to know her enough to sell her the dog. She was--and still is--very sincere. She absolutely fell in love with Montana, he responded well with her, I thought everything was great. At the time she told me she needed to get her stockade fence fixed first before she took him home and asked if I would hold him for her for a week or 2 till she got the fence fixed? Of course I told her I would--no problem. Well, it is now over 5 MONTHS later and she STILL has not taken this dog home. She paid $1,000 for him when she signed my sales contract on the day she bought him so he IS paid for. Then I didnâ??t hear from her for several weeks. She works 3rd shift at a factory and sleeps days (makes real good money driving a fork lift truck at New Process Gear which I think is a division of Chrysler). I tried calling her several times but never got an answer and she had no answering machine. I finally got ahold of her and she ended up going with me and Montana to a match so she could see what a dog show was like-she has never been to a dog show. She had a good time. That was May 27th.  We had a good time--she was WONDERFUL with him--spent the day with him. alls well. (I thought) Then I didnt hear from her again for weeks. Finally I sent her a letter (of course I have a copy) asking her if she still wanted the dog and where was she and why didnt she call me. She called when she got it and told me she still didnt have her fence fixed, needed to get her life straightened out (she is single, lives alone, probably around 50 yrs old--not a goofy kid). Said she really wanted to get him "home" and she just needed more time--blah blah blah. Next it is July, still havent heard from her again, I finally got her on the phone, similar conversation, still isnt ready to take him, I asked her to come to my club picnic--the Iroquois GSD Club (Syracuse, NY) so she could see him and spend time with him and we could talk. She did. Spent the day with Montana, gave him loves and hugs and walked with him for several hours--was really good with him but--Same story, she still isnt ready to take him home. She also told me that lots of times when she gets out of work at 6 am she is tired and she ends up falling asleep in her truck and never gets home till early afternoonâ??which is why I can never get ahold of her. (hmmmmmmâ??this is not good. I have red flashing lights going off in my brain.) Then she gave me $20 for a bag of dog food. Several weeks later, I still havent heard from her again, I finally got her on the phone again and told her I really needed some money for his care and food. She gave me $275.00, still same story, she isnt ready for him yet--trying to get her life together, still hasnt gotten her fence fixed. Then it is August. Weeks go by, nothing from her, I finally got her on the phone and she came over with 2 bags of dog food. That was the beginning of August. I have not heard from her since. Nothing. No phone call, nothing. Now I am finished playing her game, my patience is gone, I dont want to have Montana sitting here waiting for her when he could be in a family playing and bonding and living a good life like I planned for him months ago. I can not keep him-I have his father and another old male and my bitchesâ??donâ??t need another male here. I never planned on keeping him in the first place. Even if he is not shown-he needs to be in a home with a familyâ??NOW. I sent her a letter last Friday telling her I cant wait any longer and she owes me money for board and food and I want him in a home where he can have a good life and I am going to find him a home--and the $1,000 she paid for him is about what she owes me for board and food and care, ---- My question to you is--can I do this and is this legal. ???  Here is a copy of the letter I sent her. October 19, 2007  Dear Nancy,  I have been thinking about writing this letter to you for the past couple weeks, but have been holding off waiting for you to call me. You havenâ??t. I havenâ??t heard from you for over 2 MONTHS. Why should I call you???? You are the one who supposedly loves this dog and should be contacting me to see how he is doing and trying to make adjustments to your life and living arrangementsâ??and your fenceâ??so you can take him home. You are obviously not very interested in the welfare or health or condition of Montana or you would AT THE VERY LEAST keep in touch with me. Andâ?¦â?¦.I think I have been MORE than patient with your situation.  Againâ??as in the previous letter I wrote you several months ago, I am wondering if you are ok or in the hospital or something and unable to contact me.  When you first came to me IN MAYâ??5 MONTHS AGO, to buy this dog, I fully expected that you would have your fence fixed and be taking him home with you within a couple weeks. That turned into a month or soâ??which is now 5 months later and at this point now, I am thinking I made a very bad mistake in selling him to youâ??and I am also thinking you have made a mistake in thinking you had the time and the room in your life for a dog. You obviously do not.  Am I upset?? Of course. I am upset, frustrated and very discouraged with this whole situation. I always want the very best home for my dogs that I sell and over the past 25 or so years, I have done quite well in selecting people that I thought would provide a good and loving home for the pups and dogs I have sold. I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST YOU PERSONALLYâ??but I think this is a bad decision on your part and you are obviously not ready to have a dogâ??especially a BIG, young, healthy, rambunctious male dog-- in your life right now. I so much wanted for Montana to be in a good loving home settingâ??MANY MONTHS AGO, and here he sits stillâ??waiting for someone who never shows up. Montana needs a family to love and play with and care for him NOWâ??not months down the road when you decide you might have the time.  I am also the one who is supporting himâ??providing food, worming, shelter, vitamins, etc etc for him and AS I TOLD YOU IN THE BEGINNINGâ??I cannot afford to support another dog. THAT IS WHY I SOLD HIM TO YOU. He is costing me money for his careâ??and he needs much more attention and exercise than I can give him right now. I am grateful for the $275.00 you contributed to his board and food several months ago, especially since it was given to me when I was in a situation of need at the time-but at this point that is not enough. If you check any of the boarding facilities in this area, you will find that most or all of them are over $16.00 PER DAY. I never said I would charge you that muchâ??but even half that amountâ??at $8.00 per day would be approximately $248.00 per month. It has been 5 months nowâ??and so far all you have contributed to his keep is $275.00. And at the above price, for 5 months, it comes to $1,240 minus of course the $275.00,  you have already given me, leaves a balance of $965.00 still owed. Andâ??the above prices for board at ANY facility ONLY include BOARD. That does not include vitamins, medicine, worming, special care such as bathing, etc etc.  At this point, I think it is best that I find him another home, with a good and loving family, that will give him the time, attention, play and care that he needs. I know I mentioned that my son-in-law really loves and wanted him but that wont work because they have 5 kids and 1 dog now and that is all their budget will allow, and my daughter said absolutely no to having another dog there.  My plan is to put another ad in the paper for him, and to alert my friends and other dog people I know and see what comes of it, but I would like to find him a really good home.  You paid $1,000 for him, you owe me $965.00 for his board not counting medicines, worming, etc., and who knows how much for my time and frustration with this whole situation and peace of mind and so I say lets just call it even and forget this whole thing.  I am not trying to hurt your feelings, I know you have a lot of problems in your life and just canâ??t seem to get it all together and I think this is best for all concernedâ??especially for Montana. I know you have told me quite a few times that lots of times after you get out of work in the morning, you end up sleeping in your truckâ??which means you donâ??t go home after workâ??and that will DEFINITELY NOT work if you had Montana waiting there for you. I cant imagine the loneliness and boredom he would endureâ??and the mischief he would get into being alone all the time. Plus the fact he would not be fed on a regular schedule or be able to go out to potty--This just wont work.  Sometime in the future, when you have your life more under control and have the time to care for a dog, I will consider giving you a puppy or older dog as a replacement if you want one, but right now you obviously do not have the considerable time that a dog needs and this dog needs attention right now, not in a few months or years.  Please give me a call when you get this letter. Cheri Hunt     ________________________________________________________________________ Email and AIM finally together. You've gotta check out free AOL Mail! - http://mail.aol.com ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2007. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. 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