Jeff, Jeff, Jeff, your final words say it all. It is not about law, in the long run. I speed now and then and only get caught when I don't listen to my inner voice. I do other things too that the law frowns on, but I keep my Karma in the front of my mind. And I keep my Dogma close to my Karma so it don't get run over. What goes around comes around, and that in the long run that is what we have, in life and in dogs. I do one good deed a day for someone I have never met, if I can. I say please and thank you to stranger and wait staff. And I hope to continue to run great dog shows for everyone and anyone who wants to show a German Shepherd. I never say I can't talk, but I have been known to say, can you call me later? If everyone of us here would be nice, just be nice, even when we are mad, none of this would be as sickening as it is. I have been married for a short 19 years. Not by being selfish and bitchy, but by turning the other cheek and slowly teaching what will get a better response next time. I am still married in a world with 50% divorce rate. I won't say it is easy or plain fun. It has been and will continue to be work to be nice. But we have to work at being nice, more. sheila caggra@xxxxxxx wrote: You are exactly right Terry.? Yes, people should all be held accountable equally.? However, Kathy's analogy about being measured by the same yardstick I think is a partial cop-out for those who chose to use it.??Those?caught breaking a rule (of the List or in life) and their supporters will natually cling to this "oh but others did it and nothing was done to them" mentality.? That is not the way life works.? It's not the way accountability works.? Everyday people break the law and do not get caught or they get a good lawyer and get off with barely a slap on the wrist.? Does that mean that if I break the law then I can get off by proving that someone else out there in the world did not get the same punishment?? The answer is no.? Be accountable for your actions.? That being said, none of us know all of the facts or both sides of this issue!? So, why is there arguing over it?? I know it is natural to support those you care about, but if you don't know all the facts you are just stirring the pot without knowing the ingredients.? My personal feeling is that I do think that being off the List for a week or so is probably a strong enough message to the violators and the rest of the List.?? However, again, I do not know all the details about what happened.? Lastly - Terra is EXACTLY Right!? What?goes around DOES?comes around.?? Karma is a very strong force. Jeff Pyle -----Original Message----- From: Terry Cochran To: terra fairburn ; tokaye@xxxxxxxxxxxxx; showgsd-l@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Sent: Mon, 8 Oct 2007 10:05 am Subject: [ SHOWGSD-L ] Re: My 2 Cents Actually the very important things in life are that simple. It is always the gray area that will get you in trouble. I remember that I was called for advertising the Rightdog.com site on this list. It hurt my feelings and yes I have found creative ways around it but I am living by that rule. If you do something and get caught don't be surprised if you are punished. I have thought for a while that the rules were too loose on the list. Terry terra fairburn wrote: Actually life is just not that simple. Some people are great at spinning anything! People can print anything now days too! And sometimes some people "get over" while others "get busted" or maybe just held to a "higher standard". But I do believe what goes around, comes around! Terra Fairburn & Nanc Kinley Keggi Fair German Shepherds Terraf@xxxxxxxxxxxx www.keggifair.com members of the GSDC of Quad Cities members of the GSDC of America "The noblest pleasure is the joy of understanding" Leonardo da Vinci --------------------------------- Be a better Heartthrob. Get better relationship answers from someone who knows. Yahoo! Answers - Check it out. ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2007. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - www.showgsd.org ============================================================================